Prince Exam...

Prince sat for exam yesterday- e business strategy, Prince scores both assignments at a reasonable marks, 75% and 95% (both stands for 50% of 100%) respectively, and he needs to pass the exam in order to move on, but for prince, yesterday exam on e business strategy was just like the declaration of war for Prince, because he is not worried since he has scored for the assignment. Today’s exam is the real one because prince has little confidence, due to the assignment mark of 25% out of 50%, prince needs another 30% to make a pass. However, he believes he can do it…

Prince thought of SArongPartyGal..Not All bad though..

Prince has a serious thought about sarong party girl’s blog lately, after much contemplation, prince decides to put a few line ahead, without looking back on the ‘causes’ anymore. Prince is too tired to do analysis on human!

Sarong Party Girl’s issue has cruised around for some time, until recently when one of the Sarong Party Girl from Singapore uploads her naked picture online. She proclaims the picture as for artistic purposes, starting it as a joke and later developed into serious thought.

Many comments are posted (prince believes), some good and some bad, somehow, all the comments are from a non-neutral thought, which may appears unfair to ‘her’.

Prince wonders, if the girl is originally from the West, all the recent heat-up will never take place. It happens here, because commenter basically presents their ‘Asian Perspective of Thought’, heating up the issues.

Let’s take a scroll back, prince believes she is somehow a mature lady at her 19, who are able to think for herself, and that, she has realized how the society works. This may not be bad after all. Every human being hit maturity in thought somehow in variation. Some may be at their 30 but think like a child! All theses consideration needs to take into account before starting to comment on others.

Meanwhile, the principle of causation tells human being about cause and effect, everything has its cause, and effect, of course. What makes her to think in such a way that she realized the power of a woman, and how would she be able deem materials, sex and many that she can think so, as fun and part of her life. Not many human beings are able to lead this life!

However, everything has it ‘effect of effect’, it may lead to many consequences if allows too much indulgence. When you are too obsesses in what you think is right, may something become ‘not-so-right’. You may insist, and uphold your own believe which sometimes/ most of the times go against the nature.

She started it as a joke, but too much involvement, leading her deep into it. She found her worlds in her own fantasy. For example, if you try dancing for the first time, started with leisure/ interest, but if you indulge your own self into dancing, eventually you will fall in love with it, and you tend to spend more and more time with it. This will happen when you develop your own world with your own fantasy. It is the same theory as when people proclaims ‘Love is Blind’, because human being basically willing to do anything for their love partner, they will against anyone who try to stop them, such as their parent (if parents insist of breaking them up, you can expect a fight!). They will not realize their mistake though, even if there is! A mistake…

Prince falls into it...

As prince lifestyle is quite simple, however, to prepare for tomorrow examination in the morning, prince has made determination to do revision at night; but somehow, he is lagging on his daily chores. Prince suddenly realize that he is sitting in the living room, reading newspaper, and watching TV, he feels lazy to go upstairs for revision, and keep giving himself an excuses to finish the newspaper first.

Prince realizes that this is wrong, because he just written about ‘when interest turns into a nightmare”. When human being has got used to the lifestyle, it will make human being drawn into it, and never wake up. Prince has been doing it every day, but in time of emergency, prince found himself still doing the same routine work.

It is like addiction, you will be in trouble when you fall in love with your interest, or what you like…

However, it doesn’t matter to fall in love with your partners…somehow, as long as you are rational enough…

Prince thought of the process...

How the process of each outcome affect human thought, is important to determine how people perceived the outcome to be. Human being is a kind creature, perhaps. The process of killing a chicken is cruel, but eating the chicken drumstick taste differently. What if the process was recorded, and shows in front of every KFC outlet, to every walk-in consumers? Then KFC may have to sell vegetarian foods…

It applies to every facet of our lives, especially in workplace. If management is interfering with your work boundary, the amount of effort you place in developing the outcome may not please them as much as if they do not interfere. If they involve in the process, they set their perception on minor mistake, and bring forth to the end result as a weakness. Psychologically, it affects their perception.

Thus, for an executive, needs to keep the management out of the process, when necessarily, update only on the surface, but must try to make the outcome as significant as possible…

Prince advises to defeat causation principles...

Prince has written the principle of causation, which has incorporated prince thought, philosophy, principles and many more. The principle of causation, has in fact leading us to believe that everything occurrence has cause and effect. Though believing into the principles, to be at the extreme side of being a perfectionist, living flawlessly, to beat the principle of causation has become a need. Nevertheless, defeating the principle itself is a difficult task, especially when human are born with the same brain cell!

Of course, you may believe, it is impossible to beat the principle itself, but trying causes no harm. The principle of causation applies to every human being and every occurrence in the world. When you have understood the principles, in order to grow better, you need to defeat the principle. Once you have overcome everything, no human being can neither guess nor read your past/future. However, it can lead to psychology sequelae, which is ‘personality / character confusion’.

Beating the principle itself is like ‘suspect zero’, whereby, they believe that a series killer may not have patterns or repetitive behavior for detection or reading. They kill randomly, with no influences from their surrounding. Most importantly, they have an empty-mind! It happens when you do something without ‘cause’, although it can lead to the effect, but the cause is hidden. If they can’t find the cause, your inner world is secure. Talk is always easier than done, but trying causes no harm, in fact, those with double-personality is somehow subconsciously practicing it.

You can beat the principles in totality, only if you can perform something without intention or subjective causes. For example, you are eating not because you are hungry or any other reason; you eat just because you eat! You walk on the street, across the road and punch a guy without any reason. Of course, you may eventually send to mental hospital if you are trying to defeat the principles without following the rule of nature.


P/S: It is crucial to be your own self! Personality / character confusion is part of mental diseases!

Prince thought of life molecule...

A life is built up of a colorful combination of many molecule; Friendship, Family, Profession / Career, and some may have more if they lead a double life. How human being manages all this different molecules, and combines it to create a perfect life? Each molecule is then built up of stages from nothing to something, such as friendship (human being was born alone in the friendship circles). Human being was born with family as the first stage, proceeding with ages before they finally know the meaning of friends. These all are how life is form.

Molecule clashes with each other when human being over acting on self-force, and lost their direction .They eventually create a mess or confusion in their life, without knowing what is right and wrong, gradually, this confusion is equivalent to virus, affecting other ‘lives’.

To resolve this confusion, principles are needed very urgently, to confine the human boundaries. However, how many human beings realize the importance of principles? Furthermore, wrong set of principles may lead you to even more confusion, becoming a total disaster!

Principles can also help to earn respect, but respect from others will only be formed if principles are sacred, however, it doesn’t necessary mean that principle should play an important roles even affecting life and work, at which jeopardizing others performance. For example, a friend admitted to hospital during the day of your official project launching, and you take leave to wait for your friend’s surgery operation. You may only thought of friendship, because your principles- ‘friends come first’, perhaps you do not realize how much it can affect your work. It means, your show NO responsibility and commitment in your work, which ultimately affecting your other part of your life (the other molecules).

Human being needs to confine themselves to where they fall into, for example, matter that should be settled within the friendship circles should remain in the friendship circles, meanwhile, Official matter related to work should settle within their own boundary. Eventually, these molecules are inter-related only when human being talks about it. Judging on the example above, perhaps, you may visit your friend during lunch hours, or at night when he awakes?


P/S: you do not give $ to beggar, doesn’t mean you are not kind. You have your own thought- to help them to help themselves...

Prince thought human born perfect...

Prince believes that Human being is born perfect (unless they are born with disability), that is why baby is always endowed with the word ‘innocence’ & ‘flawless’. There is always a space for kindness for every human being because they are also born kind, prince believes.

People argues on the fact that human behavior turns sours, and blaming on others wrong doing, you may hear this very often when parent tends to scold their children for ‘no hope’, stupid and un-teachable. In fact, every human being is forgiven for their doing, and every human being deserves the opportunity for a change in life. Every human being is born with kindness, and it is the process of being an adult that led them to wrong path. They haven’t found the right person to lead them back to the right track. Although, it is arguable that only if human being desire for a change can change for the best, but sometimes, if you can find the way to the inner world, and discover what can provoke human desire for a change, would certainly make the process faster than ever.

Prince succeed many times in changing people from bad to good, but he fails one time, when he met up with his assistance. He is able to read her inner world, and see the picture of her. The only challenging task is to make her realize of herself. Prince fails to change her because she is in a different world (dancing), you can not change a person without bringing her into your own world. The person that needs changes, have to look back to their own personalities, by standing at the other angle, totally out of their world, which is not easy without someone leading them.

Meanwhile, our society is made up good and bad, somehow, the bad is an outcome of learning process turns sour. There is always a chance for human being to be good, but sometimes, they make their choice to become what they want, partly due to the external forces, and character development process. Thus, parent needs to teach children how to make choice, most importantly, how to evaluate good and bad. Human being has no right to tell people what is good and bad but to teach human being what is good and bad. When you tell them what is good and bad, they tend to develop their own believes, and become rigid. Their rationality stuck there. For example, when your child is watching action movie, and there is a fighting scene, for them it is merely a scene of 2 people punching each other with expression, if you tell them this is wrong. In future, if they see a fighting scene, they know it is wrong, and they won’t evaluate whose right and wrong, or who start the fight first, all they know is ‘wrong’. It becomes rigid to them, thus, parent needs to teach them how to evaluate a situation because it can help to develop their reasoning power.

Prince leadership in Totality...

What is leadership in totality? There is no way you can understand about leadership in totality if you do not know about teaching and guiding your subordinate. Leaders who do not know about guiding subordinate, very often, have overwhelming self-obsession.

Self-obsession is a strong self-force generate from inside out, it occurs when a leader desire for a success, and strong confidence and autocratic become the main causes. Self-obsession can lead to several outcomes, but the most significant one is when, they do not train people to react in leader’s way, but they train people to perform according to their way, which is totally wrong. They possess strong self-obsession disease, which they feel the need to fulfill own desire, and thus, forcing the surrounding (human factor, environment and etc) to adapt to them.

Meanwhile, fickleness has become part of being a good leader, leading to the creation of executive dilemma nowadays. Fickleness occurs when leaders have the thought of ‘incremental improvement’, thus, leading to change of decision. Many observers believes that leaders are being indecisive, which is a wrong perception, but eventually, either incremental improvement or indecisive, are both belong to the same categories- inferior leadership! Perhaps, leaders do not realize their fickleness, but the consequences, which may affect their business operation somehow, and further, it increases the burden of work of their subordinate.

Meanwhile, a good leader, perhaps, should know when to provide opportunities to their subordinate, leader should always clear of what they want at the first hand. In term of delegation, leader needs to clearly specify your objective so that executer can help to draw strategy to achieve the particular objective. Very often, leaders, themselves do not know what they want- when they thought they know, and the outcome generated from their subordinate does not match their expectation. This can be a disaster for the management after all.

Prince Thought of Character Development...

For children, character development is part and parcel of Early Childhood Education; it helps to shape the children’s character and prepared them to function well in the society in future. Not to forgone adult, who may eventually need character development as well. Nevertheless, Character Development needs implementation in two-fold, firstly, it targets at those newly enroll children into kindergarten, secondly, to help those, whom, character has been shaped and developed in their own way with own definition, but to be reminded, gradually, character will become tougher to shape or reshape when moving into adult age.

Training program has received a boom in the marketplace nowadays, especially, Human Resource Practitioners believe that training program is a need, and become a must for problem employees; meanwhile, it also becomes a motivation program for their employees. The fundamental question posted, is the effectiveness of the training program for human being, in helping to shape their character.

It is a great challenge to shape human character / behavior at adult age, especially when they have been taught to behave with their own definition of ‘correct’ way. Training program that focuses on character building and team building are merely an inspiration seminar for those participants that do not really help to shape them. Character building needs constant reinforcement, whereby, it must deeply penetrate the life of an employee, it helps to act as reinforcement and reminder of change, at which is not offered in a seminar.

Many character building program fails because it is merely an inspiration seminar for those involves, and it takes a tickle to feel and to forget. They do not have the persistency to adopt change personally, and thus, falling back their own character pathway. To make matter worse, when reinforcement eventually becomes their annoyance, and they will not appreciate it anymore.

Human is always acting on self-force, whereby, they can change if only, they are willing to change, and they have to question themselves what they have to perform in order to change. Training seminar is merely an inspiring seminar for the change adopters, or sometimes merely acting as reinforcement.

As long as there is a will, there is a way, in human character development process, is a learning process, and need high level of self-conscious. There is no need for motivation seminar, character building seminar, teamwork seminar or many more, because human is a born learners. The fundamental believes in learners, is learning force should generate from inside out, not from outside in. Most seminars are adopting an ‘outside in’ training methodology which does not generate impact, instead it is merely an inspiration stories for the learners.

Human being can learn about leadership from book, receive motivation from life experience, for example, optimistic can become a force of motivation, and optimistic is a subjective knowledge that form from inside of a human being without the need to go for training, the most they can do, is to learn from a book ‘how to become optimistic’, and they can change if only they really desire for a change!

P/S: this feedback was written after listening to a friend of prince, who attended some soft of motivation and life-challenging seminar, and can’t stop praising the great talent of the speakers, and creativity of the company itself.

Prince feels disappointed with Top Scorers nowaday..

Recently, newspaper heated up the national issues- ‘Top scorer fails to get scholarship’, is a disappointing issue, and not because they can not get scholarship but how they thought the world has owed them with their colorful result! To make matter worse, one of the politician’s even claims that she does not believe that a top scorer will fail an interview session.

The government and public have given much self-esteem and confidence to the students, pushing them into believing that academic result is everything. Meanwhile, some people even believe that a top scorer is good in everything!

Obviously, it is not true; judging at the unemployed rate in Malaysia, looking into the possible causes, and you may find the reason of top scorers out of job is because they can’t even speak proper English! They fail an interview and couldn’t find a job, and shall they blame the company for not recruiting them? It is just like government fails them in the scholarship interview. Our government has been too lenient to students, somehow, has pampered our students too much.

The conclusion, Top scorers are not king, unless they really show us they excel in every facet, the least, communicate well and confidently. How they bring themselves in the society, reflect their survival out there, and bear in mind that, this has no bearing on their academic result!

Prince causation Princple....

No one has ever looked into the principle of causation which forms part of the human learning process. Human being, unless they believe in miracle- something that happen out of control and with no possible explanation, otherwise, everything that happen in this world, applies through the principle of causation. The mechanism of causation needs no special learning experience, but mostly, natural ability in observation and pondering. Human with overwhelming of curiosity will tend to explore the causation principle.

The principle of causation believes that every occurrence is the ‘effect’, and related to the cause. In order to find out the cause, it requires thorough investigation, through observation and ponders which put the pieces and pieces together to form a bigger picture. The ‘cause’ can sometime be very subjective; it depends on the ‘effects’ study. We will further explore the principle of causation through reading the human character. Human behavioral study is a very interesting research area that requires meticulous attention. Every facet of a human life reflects the inner world in relation to the particular human being.

A series killers may not necessary be someone cruel, cold blood, and perform in a repetitive behavior. Many incidents have proven the criminal psychologist wrong in sketching the character of certain killers. Very often, killers, who they believes to be someone illiterate appears to be a white-collars workers, or sometimes, a cold-blood killers that they believes to be someone who has criminal record, but appears to be a respectful kindergarten teachers. This is a grey area that needs special attention when study the principle of causation, because something you see and feel may not be what you think it is. Human being is a vulnerable creature, being easily manipulated by what they see and feel.

The principle of causation can help to drill into the fact of cause, leading you into the inner world of a human being, however, you need to have fully understanding of how a human being re-action to certain scenario. Once you have discovered the inner world, what you see and feel can help to establish the possible happening in future, though, with no proven fact. The principle of causation can help you to predict the past and look into future; however, in relation to future, the principle introduces the ‘external forces’ which may distort the prediction. These external factors are considered as the influencing forces. The external factors cover a wide definition; it usually refers to items that can create an influence on human beings, including activities such as attending funeral, accidents, failing mid-year exam and etc.

Let’s further exam the principle of causation in prince definition; a playboy, perhaps, could be good study object. James, a well-known playboy, craving for sex every night and he is basically hooking up with any possible ladies that match his expectation. The question, why is he a playboy? The principle of causation requires you to further understand his lifestyle, and finding the pathway into his inner world. Could he possibly from a broken family, or being hurt by his previous relationship (if he is not a born playboy though)? If he is not from a broken family, then could he feels bored with the ‘nagging’ from his parents, and bored about his life of being too prefect, thus, he is craving for something else, and sex is the best possible access to a better and different world? The principle of causation requires you to establish the possible question and discover the answer that can justify the effect. The cover girl in the playboy magazine may not necessary looking for fame or perhaps money because there’s many way to earn money and fame! A prostitute may not necessary looking for fast money, or perhaps, a lame believes that they are also looking for pleasure, the scene behind, they could be a ‘fallen angel’, giving up their own life, because they feel bored, and why? Perhaps they were forced into it, but they can resist! Or perhaps they had resisted, and they have given up now……one by one, leading to the inner world, where you find your answer…last but not least, don’t judge only with your own principle and believe, or from the surface itself……

Prince of DArkness....

People with mental problem tend to live in their own world, no one can prove that there’s something other than this practical world that we are living into it today. It is hard to prove the trueness of this, but believe it or not, we are living in this world, and cruising around in some other dimension, at which, we name it the virtual dimension. It is not just the world of ‘virtual’, but also the non-existing world that we may not be able to see with flesh eye, and touch with our hand.

No one can tell how many worlds out there that we neither can feel nor touch, but something for sure; we can try to connect to them through some form of psychic. Some people name it sixth sense as sense out of sense. Apparently, every creature living in this world, has some form of virtual connection to the same kind, a good observation on a twin, who are able to feel each other to certain extends. Twin is born with the ‘connection’, so obvious that they sometimes can feel each other especially when their lives are at stake. However, this may be true for a twin, but does it applies to normal human being as well? Some may give a lame believe to its existence.

Human being can connect to each other in some sense, to a certain extend, entering the mind of other, and reading the behavior and character of the person. Every little thing that a person does, such as walking, talking, eating, sleeping, all the body movement reflects their willingness to open their inner door for you. Eyes, plays an important role, it is the main component that forms the path towards to the light of the souls, leading you to the door of the inner world. Strong believers are usually a perfectionist in practice, trying to hide their trueness away in the dark side (not necessary bad), in order to look into the bright one (not necessary good).

This is neither good or bad but merely a sharing experience with those who is reading this, human has to always be at the elite position, looking at those, they belief, need helps. By looking into the eyes of other, tells you the inner world of a person, once you posses the key, the door will lead you to more answers. Sometimes human fakes their feeling, and personality, and they play around with your feeling, making you feel right about them, to break though the spell, you may need meticulous observation, looking for the pathway, and for the key to the doors.

Only those with experience can tell in a minute of two, a person character with more than 50% hit points. The first encounter is usually the toughest break through, because people tends to fake to certain extend, when leading down to the following, the faking system growing weak. This is the norm of human being for being inconsistent. Through some form of connection, you are able to determine if a person is good, bad, capable, efficient, ambitious, inner aggressiveness…most importantly, it helps you explore the dark side of a human being…

Prince of Darkness

Prince thought....of love...

Love is blind? Here again, love is a very subjective dimension in which it is not quantifiable. Argument on love has been heated on among the youth these day, one side strongly agree on the old one said, ‘Love is blind’, and on the other hand, taking a firm stand to support, that Love is not blind. Though, many have tried to bring forth some facts to support their argument, but undeniably, it is entirely depend on the situation. One strong fact brought forth is the rationality of human being, can play an important role in relationship, they argue that maturity tags along with rationality. Rationality determines the maturity level of your thought, and that you seldom lost in relationship. This argument was attack by the fundamentalist (original believe), who believe that love is a feeling, and is supposed to be aesthetic. They believe feeling is a gift from god, and should flow naturally without much contemplation in the process. It is totally in contrast with rationality because rationality requires a lot of thought especially when something has happen in the process, requires thinking process. Fundamentalist adopts an open approach in relationship, whereby, they believe, if thing is mean to be that way, it shall be that way. People who has been cheated in a relationship, through rationality , enhance the learning system, however, people who believes in fundamentalist, take it as a memory, and fated.

But human love shares the common believes that, love should not be all-in one side, and love can not be enforced and everybody needs to give and receive love. It helps you to create no lost love in between. You also have to believe that love is not without jealousy, and love without affection is not love, it is like. Love can neither be bought nor sold, remember……

Prince Presentation in Office arr....

Prince was given a task, to do a presentation on company future development plan next Wednesday; the mock-presentation will be on Monday. Prince owns a little worry, because he, at the same time needs to prepare for the coming exam on 23rd and 24th June. It’s just another 2 week from now. What can prince do…can he manage to get through everything smoothly…We shall see…

Prince went Jogging....

Prince went jogging in Bandar Tun Razak Park with Mr. Logas! Apparently, the track has a length of around 2km, and we managed to finish it. Prince likes to sweat, it makes him relax. Prince has never given up working out, he likes to swim, jogging, Gym work-out & last but not least, his used-to-be-best-in-interest-activity-Muay Thai! Undergoing the training at the early ages, give Prince the mileage in sport, at least, he is able to stretch his body over ordinary boundaries. Anyone who likes to walk in lush greenery, admiring the fascinating scenery, can try out Bandar Tun Razak Leisure Park, right in front of HUKM.

Prince thought of Sport...

Dancing is nothing more than sports, but spending too much time, will certainly affects other facet of your life. Human being exerts their body, use their strength, sweat, and worn-out, if they do not rest properly, they may not be able to concentrate on their work again. Prince has a strong interest in dancing but not until recently he sees, how can, any sports, use to affect other facet of human life, both good and bad. Human needs to prioritize their activities, and further, must remain consistent all the time, to pursue their direction, because human being tends to go off-track.

Prince with uncontrollable brains...

Human being, each owns a brain that are uncontrollable, how good if we can control our brain, subsequently our mind. Human being tends to ponder a lot; this is regard as a daily routine to train our brain. But for certain people, who may cry out loud for a small issue, tend to exert their brain too much. They tend to be sensitive over minor issue, and further it affects them psychologically. People who use to think too much, tends to be very fragile, weak, spiritually needs back-up, and found themselves pillar.

Prince & Grandee Early Childhood Education...

Grandee school of thought in Early Childhood Education believes that Happy Children learns better in life. Grandee pioneers into Early Childhood Education, which bring forth the important of early childhood education to public. Needless to say, Asian has known little about parenting knowledge, neither one has a formal education about parenting, not even in national education syllabus. Ironically, human owns the ability to nurture children, yes? No? Nurturing for ordinary human being, are learned through experiential process. They tend to nurture their children they way they were brought up. This is a simple theory about parenting, but you can not blame them for ignorant because they was not given the opportunity to learn, further, with the old-fashioned environment they were living in, they know nothing about the existence of parenting.

Prince & Grandee rationality...

Grandee Philosophy is a simple theory of all, whereby, rationality applies in all facet of life. Grandee theory believes that human being is too superstitious, selfish, and many uglier character that can easily describe human being. Grandee sees through this all, and he believes that as long as human can use his rationality in reasoning process, can help to get rid of ugly human behavior.

Prince & Grandee Value Added...

What is value added? Value added is the extra value provided to anyone without incurring any cost upon them. Grandee theory of value added is very much simple, value adding process is a continuous processes that injecting in new value to every dimension of business. This help to enhance the business process, this can be done when the cost of operation is diminishing due to the fall in the learning curve. Say is always easier. Every company is able to add value to its product, process, operation, services and many more, only if they are willing to incur a minor cost, many china man company does not favor value adding, for them, it is an extra cost incur, and they believes that customer will come back to them at the end of the day, even without extra value. This is the marketing hallucination most of the china man company is so much embracing it now. A value added system, can be a group of capable managers, meeting on a weekly basis, to discuss about the company product, service, process, management and many more. It is not easy to construct a value added system, since value added system is a continuous process to look for incremental value that can provide to customer without incurring any extra cost for any party. Value adding process covers every part of the business, including the security guard in guard house who, ultimately, become the first contact point for many visitors / customer.

Prince and Grandee...

What is Grandee Theory? Grandee represents the nobleman of the highest rank in Spain or Portugal. Prince proudly presents the theory of Grandee, where he shall use Grandee as the initial for all of his thought & works. Prince theory sounds awkward, especially for people who do not know what prince is, and who is prince. Grandee, a word can be easily remember and pronounce, perfectly suits Prince Vision, it reflects prince dreams of high ranking, living in a high society. Meanwhile, Prince emailed one of the professors in University Malaya, to enquire about the PhD program. Yes, Prince plans to pursue his PhD in UM, majoring in Educational Psychology, or may be, in Early Childhood Education. For the time being, Prince was in a dilemma in choosing between DBA and PhD, finally, he plan to do both, DBA and subsequently PhD.

Prince never fight a war if can't win..

Prince adopted a principle all the time, if you can’t win, don’t fight! This is a very subjective issue, once the old said; if you think you can win a war, and then don’t go into the war. It is more about confidence; they believe that confidence tells everything. For prince, it is not that simple though, you need to analyze your location, timing, and human factor to decide if you can win a war. If all the above factors appears disadvantage to you, then where can you find your confidence? But if the entire above factor appears advantage to your side, then confidence will grow! But some people believe that if you are confidence, you can change the disadvantage to advantage. What do you think?

Prince evaluates....

Prince has been observing closely her assistance to find out the problem lying inside of her, with intention to help her, and lead her to correct path, this evaluation was done in second months of prince work, but almost forget about the observation process totally. This is what prince has noticed, and plans to help her out. Until recently, he seen some improvement in her, even though, still, the whole department has to bear the fact that she made a mistaken in design art-work, wrongly prints out 60 T-shirts. She eventually amended the T-shirt, and leads to a happy ending, at which Prince is happy, but still can’t keep that mistake out of his mind.


Strength:

Considerable knowledge about event management, and able to generate new ideas

High-self-esteem & confidence in event management, & favorable working assignment

Can gets Along with colleague well, and has Good Hygiene

Has a considerable level of focus in work duty, and spirit of team player

Has Good Attendance, Is Cooperative

Weakness:

Low level of independent in work, and unable to finish work on time

Low level of problem solving ability & Low level of willingness to work

Less meticulous, and Low self-conscious, self-improvement & self-conscious

High persistence leads to stubborn & unable to ponder rationally from situation to situation

Problem of accuracy with their work, and does not really follow directions due to lack of concentration

Timeliness to work is a question, and often, emotionally carries away which affects her PR works.

Low priorities ability, and lead to wrong focus / concentration

Remark:

For prince, throughout the one month period with her, he has found her personality to be quite friendly and approachable. With her one and half year experience in HQ Corporate Communication Department, she has, the least, able to exert her event management skills learned in the past. Prince must applaud her ability for new idea generation, although, some ideas may appears to be unrealistic. Meanwhile, prince found her efficiency in producing outcome is questionable, prince would establish the fact that she has a personality of perfectionist, a good working behavior which foster accuracy, however, due to her weakness of ‘lack of urgency and unable to prioritize her work’ has led her to diffusion of concentration in other areas, and affecting the group performance.

As a young lady who has some experience in event management previously in HQ for annual dinner and etc, has also help to shape her self-esteem, which may sometimes turn into arrogant and stubborn.

Meanwhile, her achievement in dancing sport has also given her some personal satisfaction which led to high self-esteem and confidence, and that; it was brought into her work, affecting her working attitude subconsciously.

As a normal human being, she has the tendency to brag of her achievement sometimes, and seeking opportunities to show her ability. But, it was done so in a wrong manner, and wrongly emphasizes.

From the past one month working together with her, though, she realizes her mistake through brainstorming and personal discussion, with suggestion for solution, and even though she promises for change, but she is oblivious to certain discussion.

To help her to change, Prince helps to schedule deadline for her work to ensure she hands in on time, and regularly update on her working schedule. Meanwhile, Prince has to remind her profusely on her regular mistake, and trying to groom her to be a PR practitioner.

Prince realizes that the Root problem is the working attitude that needs to be re-shaping again. No matter what effort he places into transforming her, it is consider as controlling mechanism, but not empowering mechanism, prince needs to start from the fundamental problem-working attitude- if an employee has a good working attitude, self-initiation, self-determination, self-conscious are those character that may self-generated / self-fostered. No other measures to control an employees, and company can only grow if they have employee that are able to have passion in working for company instead of working for the rules! Previous measure of giving her due date, only make her working for the deadline, she lost her focus and the same problem occurs again and again, if not, one problem always leads to another new problem that require new measures.

Prince thought of the past...

Prince sat in front of his baby laptop, meanwhile, with his assistant, and a few other senior colleagues. Prince wonders in no way, her assistant kicks in the topic about Judo, and she starts to brag about Judo, Apparently, her sister owns a personal record to bring a person down in 3 seconds, god knows how she did that, but prince may have little know-how. Prince found it really funny after all, and with little react that triggers her annoyance, then she started to argue the practicality of Judo that even the police force is learning it.

Prince believes in every different martial art in the world, and he believes that the existence of one art brings a profound meaning, not just on the surface of each judgment. Prince does not deny the effectiveness of Judo, and really want to learn the in depth of it, but what make prince feels funny is to look at how people bragging about their interest.

Prince was trained 8 hours a day previously in Chinese Martial Arts, incorporating Tae Kwan Do, Karate, Muay Thai, and Judo. Master of prince, is an old gentlemen at his 60, with a black belt in Tai Kwon Do, Karate, Judo, and Practical fighting session in Muay Thai, furthermore, Master Yang was trained under family of Yang-Chinese martial art, and personal learning in Weng Chun & many others Chinese martial art in Penang during his young age. Now, he is more into Tai Chi at his old age. Prince was the number eight disciple in house, receiving personal training.

In prince own pride, he owns a slight better record of bringing a person down with one blow of fist. How fast can one fist move? One second? Two seconds? If any blow is more than 1 seconds, you are disqualified in any sparring! We have a little different objective in fighting, Muay Thai warrior only fight for his survival, and survival only approved if your enemy is down!

Talking about it, it reminds how prince trained himself previously, tie the coconut trunk with rope, meanwhile, wrapping your hand and ankle with cloth before you start kicking and punching, 3 month non stop punching and kicking will make your fist and leg as hard as a metal! Believe it or not, give it a try!

Prince dislikes...

Prince especially hates people without focus, and he finds it very much dislike. He wonders how he can work with his assistant who basically, with her own thought, and caring on the nitty-gritty.
She was arguing on the fact that the committee list is messing-up, jumping here and there. She wants something more systematic, and sense-making, however, Prince does not think so.

Prince expect the chief of each division to do their job, if the chairperson have to put down black and white every nitty-gritty in an event for the committee, then what is empowerment for? The chairperson will be better off to do everything on his own!

Sometimes, Prince wonders if she is too smart to be true or too impulsive, prince likes her character of being straight and frank, speaking out, but prince very much dislike her stubbornness and lack of though rough understanding in the topic.

Details planning can comes later, and what have to be done, is to brief the head of each divisions what is expected, giving them the basic guidelines to follow and the rest, based on their on creativity, innovativeness and logically sense.

Prince lives by Give and take

Prince lives by the rule of ‘give and take’, and he believes human being should try to give before they think of taking. In management, employee can’t go any further without training; training can come in as formal and informal, informally, it refers to informal training such as imparting knowledge through daily routine, it is a day to day process, and if you tend to control and spoon-feed your employee, you are creating a culture of passiveness.

You need to understand the theory of give, give means giving out your authority through delegation, and empower your employees for decision making. Give also means giving out your knowledge to share with them. You take only when they are able to give, and you take the hidden credit- respect and leadership, meanwhile, status can be built through share of credit (outcome).

Individualistic is very important in one company, you can not afford to plan for a project, drilling from up to bottom, judging at the macro and micro perspectives. As a top management, prince believes Macro should be taken up by them, and the micro- the nitty-gritty matter should be given to employees, treating it as a learning process for employee. It help to train their self-initiative ness, empower them and spur their creativity and innovative. However, when employees are indulged too much in work, the culture has been fostered, seems difficult to over turn anymore.

Prince Rich Richer RIchest...

Human being is the most selfish creature in the world, the world can be better off if we have an additional 10% of unselfish human on earth. Many rich people, is only rich for themselves, without considering making other around rich, and doubt if they can move further in their life. Rich is a materialistic dimension in one life, it can lead to devil and evil of your own. When riches bring you up a better life, living with luxurious, you tend to forget people around you, who far below you, and you have in fact isolated them. Them, as refer to your friends, relatives, the poor and the ordinary people you know or may not know. When do you consider yourself as rich? Are you rich when you living luxuriously with state of art tailored made mansion and sitting comfortably in a limousine? How much are you willing to give out to make other as rich as you? Are you willing or can you do that? People who can not make people rich as how rich they are, is not rich enough! They are nothing on earth, just like ordinary people on the street, and there is thousand of it.

Prince has different objectives and ambition in life, apart from being rich, Prince want to be richer than ordinary rich people. None of the human being on earth can deny rich, and rich is the dream of every teenager, but how far can they go? When they are rich, can they help people by giving out to make people rich? Only the richest can do that prince believes. He dreams of richest, because richest comes with high and credible status.

Prince roads towards success taking a few steps up…Academically (knowledge), Career (something gives you fix income), Politic (Status) & Business (something give you much more than career). Prince believes everything is achievable through step by step, starting from study, as prince believes, finishing his academic life is a must, meanwhile, developing his career is in parallel with his study life. To certain point of time, when he is ready, he is well-prepared to start something different and new, which is his own business that comes together with status.

There is a lot more to work for in life, throughout the process, you have to continuously think of how to increase your credibility in the society, building up your status, and gain fame across boundaries before you retired, only then you are able to bring people around you up on par with you, without isolating them…

Prince Love & Affection...

A few days ago, Prince wrote something about parenting thought; somehow, Prince did not mention clearly what is love and affection with reward and promise. Parent must also remember that love is an aesthetic feeling, and must ensure a continuous flow of it. Love and affection, generally arouses when you realize yourself.

Parent must not bring their frustration and disappointment home, nothing awful should be shown in front of their children until their children have the reasoning ability. It is simply not easy to have free flow of love and affection, with much self-conscious, to realize what one is doing.

Reward and promise can be far easier than love and affection, in term, but reward and promise without real love and affection are no better than a cold lie. When a child does wrong, you can make him ‘promise’ with your ‘promise’, and eventually, rewards as reinforcement, to correct his misbehave.

For example; ‘Sweetie, this is wrong, if you do it again, daddy will not love you anymore, you must promise daddy you will not misbehave, and if you be really good, daddy will buy a story book’

Do you see a promise that creates another invisible promise? And;

Do you see a reward?

How the reward is going to affect the child?

If the reward is a movie pass, Pizza Hut, Computer Game or Money term, will it generate a greater impact in character building process?

What will happen if the parent beat, reprimand, scold or engage any soft of punishment on the child?

There is always a catch, and whatever the parent will do, aim to correct the child negative character, always leads to the same outcome, but different approach.

Prince was once told, 3 persons who are hungry, cook for themselves the similar dish, at the end of the day, they manage to fill-up their stomach, solving the major problem- hungry, but here comes a doubt, how tasty and delicious are the food?

All the parent knows, is to correct the children character, forcing them to be good. Here comes a doubt, How good they do it?

Prince Learns Formating...

Prince is having problem with his baby laptop, getting ‘hang’ all the time, affecting his work efficiency. He hates this, and has to take the harsh way to punish his baby, which is ‘FORMAT’. Perhaps prince has expected this day, thus, he bought an external hard disk long ago storing all the important files asides from the internal hard disk. One more areas which price frustrated is, there should be one IT fellow in the company who can help to carry all the IT work, judging at how much time prince needs to spend to format a computer, has affected prince works for the day…He may just be hand the task over to IT fellow instead of DIY…

Prince Parenting Thought...

Throughout the two month period in kindergarten, dealing with 350 children that have different character, and observing 350 ways of parenting approach, Prince still believes that children are born to be kind. When come to mistake, Prince found out that it is the parent that does not perform their responsibilities with necessary parenting knowledge.

How many parents in Malaysia know about parenting? Parenting knowledge is like mathematic, English Language or Algebra … a subject that should become part of the education system, in the syllabus to impart the knowledge of parenting to teenager or couple before married, to ensure they know the right way of nurturing their children. No one can deny parenting subject, neither can you deny to learn English language or mathematic.

Very often, parent and teacher blame each other for their children wrong-doing and misbehave, and often believe in ‘Born to be wild’ theory or ‘Born with Similarities’ Theory. On the contrary, Prince believes that the parent is the culprit. Parent should be blame for the children negative character of stubborn, introvert, timid, rebellious, intolerance…

The root problem is no longer on how their children should behave (behavioral) or how the parent should nurture your children (nurturing skill), but it somehow reflects back to time when the children first born and how you started nurturing them (parenting skill).

Parent should always remind themselves, to adopt a moderate approach in nurturing, and it is in fact, a very subjective dimension in parenting, as the level varies depend on situation, parents should not pamper a child too much, neither too harsh to a child, slight punishment is necessary to discipline the children, but yet explanation must be given first. Parent should not engage unnecessary physical punishment to their children because it will lead to the psychology sequelae that haunt their childhood memories.

Parenting has never become a fanatical issue in Malaysia until lately; the fueling numbers of abuse cases have threatened the social stability. Nowadays, parent nurtures their children the same way as they were brought up, and it is totally wrong. There are guidelines to nurture children, and was research proven effective, at which it helps to grow the children, not just physically but also mentally and emotionally.

Story about Beethoven has in fact triggered some fact about parenting, although, he, eventually become the well-known pianist in the industry. Beethoven was not properly brought-up, and suffered an unpleasant childhood memories, and he treated piano as the only way to release his anger. Although he becomes well-known with his gifted-expertise, but do you think he is happy? The situation will be different if he is happily and willingly chosen music, and venture into his interest instead of by luck or by fate he dipped into it.

One common mistaken committed by most of the parent is to force their child into performing their own interest or something that they miss out during their own childhood. Parent, nowadays, pressuring their children academically, enrolling their children into ballet, piano session, drawing class and many more, how many parent actually do it for the sake of their children interest?

Though many parents believes that it is for the benefit of their children, but ignoring the children own interest, and forcing them to learn something they do not fancy, may not work at the end of the day. Even if it works out effectively that they become someone in future, but it will affect them psycho-logic subconscious mind. Many real life cases have proven this pathetic scenario, hardly believe to be true, whereby, students finish their degree in Doctorate, Engineering or Nursing, but later abandon their professional field and joins the music industry, or taking up their interested subject. Coco Lee, the famous singer is a Medical Doctor in Practice, and many other examples that shows how the children succumb to their parent decision in childhood.

If you ask an adult who success in their career, they usually attribute their success to their parent enforcement, punishment and reprimanding, especially in Chinese community. How many of them can actually tell you, ‘I am successful because it is my interest, and with the support for my parents is an added advantage’, instead, they will usually said, ‘My parent want me to become a pianist and enroll me into the class, forcing me and sometimes scold me for not performing well, without them I will not be who I am today’. The above two statements, although it results to the same outcome, but a different approach that has implanted the psychological sequelae on the children, subconsciously.

How parent nurture their children can help to shape their character in future. Successful figure usually attribute their success to their parents passion in nurturing them, but describing the so-called ‘nurturing’ as forcing, scolding, beating, instead of ‘supporting’, that has led to their success. Will this method work for the rest of the children or has it proven effective? Yes, it was proven effective through the personal experience of some parent but they did not realize that it constitutes influential psychology sequelae to their children, and it is risky, because if it fails, the children will become rebellious, or leading to many other negative character. Worse still the children lose their freedom to choose, and may become timid in future.

A scenario:-

You have two children- John & Eric. One day you read both academic report cards. You reprimand and punish John who fails his exam, meanwhile you rewards Eric who obtain a distinction. Even though you may have explained to John for his wrong-doing, but anger may have conquered his subconscious mind, emotionally filled with anger, looking at how you reward Eric and start to judge. He may have strive better in his study, and become a better person in future, but you subconsciously implanted Sibling rivalries! Or if you did not punish John, you are then pampering him for wrong doing. Again, this is a very subjective discussion for what should be done. There is always a way to cope with this situation, but how much parenting knowledge does a parent know?

Parent believes that they have to do some soft of enforcement or slight punishment, however, reward and promise are always better than punishment and enforcement, and it has to start young, or else no matter how you reward and promise in future, doesn’t seem effective anymore, furthermore, parent must have integrity and must be a promise keeper. Parent must fulfill what they have promised, and appropriate reward is important. Reward can not come in the form of material, though, sometimes, it is inevitable, but certainly can not allow your children the wrong direction. It may help to implant the materialistic dimension during children character developing period.

Meanwhile, fairness and shared of love and affection are important dimension of nurturing a children, parents tend to give their love and affection more to the youngest child, and enforces on the eldest one, and they always believe that the eldest assumes the ‘Big Brother’ role in family to take care of the youngest, pressuring the eldest child. This will ultimately instill sibling rivalries, very often, when you talk to any adult who happen to be the eldest in family, they will tell you how they parent pamper their sister or brother, and they will relate their different childhood experience among the siblings by comparing with them personally, appears to be distinctive and harsh, the process of them, relating their experience proves the theory of Sibling rivalries.

Meanwhile, if someone tell you how their parents enforce them since young, and how strict their parents are, for example, ‘I have to buy everything with my own money, but my sister and brother got everything free from my parents’; ‘last time, my parent don’t allow me to eat if I fail my exam’; ‘my parent will beat us up for wrong-doing, but I am a successful person today’. All these statements show the psychology sequelae from their childhood, and that, in future, if they are not properly told about parenting knowledge, they may nurture their children the same way as they were brought up.

These statements also show some minor sibling rivalries and dissatisfaction towards parent although they still respect and being filial. They ultimately channel their hatred towards their siblings. Meanwhile, although, they may still love their parents, but for some children, they may just hate their parent for that for the rest of their life!

How often people will tell you how much their parent loves them instead of how strict their parent enforces them? How often do you hear they praise their parents for their love and affection, such as walking under rain just to get them to hospital? If you place yourself as the observing party, you may have notice the degree of parenting knowledge among all others.

Lastly, husband and wife relationship also play an important role in the process of nurturing their children, especially in character building. If husband tends to isolate the wife when walking together, either one at the front, or one at the back, minds their own business. Certainly, their children may not receive the necessary attention at home, equally from their parents.

Parent is a role model for their children, they are the home teacher for their children, and most importantly, they spend most of the time with their children. A couple that always gives each other, their children, morning kisses, good night kisses, or calling each other honey and darling, and calls their son or daughter sweetie, will certainly help to create a far more different type of ‘home’. No one can tell if this can help to nurture them to become the future ‘Prime Minister’, but certainly, you will feel the warmness with love and affection at home, and under this circumstance, the children feels the loved.

As a conclusion, Prince always believes in happy children theory, regardless of how they will become in future either a CEO or Doctor. Happy Children Theory tells that children, throughout the proper nurturing and character building process will become someone with a good attitude in future, with sense of responsibility and retrospective. There are cases where the son was detained for burglary, but parent keep insisting that their child behave well at home. Certainly, they child behave well at home if you tend to enforce them, and they become someone else once they step out of the house. Different children needs a different approach, and as a parent, must be able to discern children behavior. Some children are introvert, and will succumb to enforcement, they will just quiet and abide. Some children, the more you enforce the more rebellious they become. The best way, still to use what we called, love and affection with reward and promise, you may wonder what that is…

Prince Watched Suspect ZERO...

Prince watched the movie-Suspect Zero! Something about FBI and psychologist, a serial killers that killed randomly without pattern and repetition behavior, making it difficult for FBI to catch the suspect.

The detective believes that serial killer has a pattern, repetitive behavior at which a police & criminal psychologist are able to construct the behavioral and forecast the next incident. However, in this case, the theory of suspect zero is on the contrary.

Meanwhile, one former FBI agent was trained under Remote Viewer ability, whereby, he is able to view something in a distance or see things before happens. Prince wondered if the movie is based on some psychological facts, but prince believes remote viewer exists and serial killer has a pattern.

Prince said the old one said...

The old once says nothing can change what you are but not who you are! The theory makes some sense, you can not change the fact that you are a human, but you can change your status and character to become a better human-being! No one s born perfect…how you shape yourself depends on how your parent nurtures you in future since born…

Prince thought of Weakness...

What make man and woman perfect? The answer is almost none, but there’re some guidelines to follow, to foster a better relationship. What make a relationship goes sour and dry, and eventually fail, it is because a couple, both parties, usually make 6 mistakes that eventually jeopardize a relationship. Meanwhile, before we proceed into discussing the common mistake, some general character that a man and woman should have, which is honesty, faithfulness, thoughtful and understanding.

The 6 common mistakes that a man or woman usually commit are:

Nagging – no matter man or woman, they hate nagging, and usually you won’t know if you are actually nagging. Nagging is a common mistake committed by woman than man. The more you nag, the more irritated a man feel, and they will try to avoid you. There’s a reason why man doesn’t want to go home sometime, because they don’t feel at home.

Jealousy- a big mistaken committed by man and woman, man can not afford to see their woman going out with other man, or woman can not afford to see their man having dinner with other woman.

Intolerant – narrow-minded- Woman or man usually argues over small issues.

Controlling – “you can not go out tonight!”, ‘No, I don’t like it’… this happen most of the time without explanation, they tend to feel that their partner does not spend enough time with them, and tend to control them. It can come in many scenarios, and it is for you to observe.

Cohesive – no matter what you do, where you go, he / she want to follow all the time, and they expect for a 24 / 7 / 365 services! It scares people away, losing personal freedom…

Suspicious – one day you come home with your shirt untie, then disaster happen!

Meanwhile, they told prince that to be a top salesman, you need to have the following things, and it can also be the 4 major weakness of a man!!!

Whoring – entertaining customer in SPA!
Gamble – Entertaining customer in Casino!
Drink – Entertaining customer in Pub, Disco, Karaoke and Café!
Eat – Entertaining customer in restaurant (the most basic one)!

Prince learns from time...

Prince is learning every day, and whenever he came across something in life, he observed, he learned, and he shared. Prince wondered what a human being can learn from ant, perhaps, Hardworking & persistence.

Prince is thinking of ‘Time’, as the pendulum swing, it swings the time away. Although Pendulum may stop to swing, but the time keep going on in life.

Prince bought princess a watch, symbolizes ‘Time’, his love and feeling towards princess is like ‘Time’, never stop and never give up…

Time never stop in the past, present or future, Time goes on and on, and it becomes longer and more if you count by days. Love and feeling grow more and more without diminishing as time goes on…and this is what we can learn from time…persistence… never give up…

Prince goes....

Prince was supposed to go clubbing tonight, but feeling tired after rushing the stupid assignment, he planned to ask for a rain-check.

Fueling with the desire to see princess, he somehow went out and spent the night with her, in Hartamas coffee bean, talking about experience and has become the most meaningful session of understanding for both of them.

Prince bought something for princess, a watch; prince spent the whole day running around looking for a good one, and plan to carve a message on it, unfortunately, the watch with limited space, unable to accommodate any message.

There is a reason why Prince chooses watch….

Prince at Steven Corner...

Prince went out yam cha in Steven’s Corner and played pool with Cath Stuart. Both of them are thinking of someway to kill time, some other has their own way of killing time. Logas and Simmy boy attended the Salsa Conference, with Liz-the Dancer, I may regard. Dancing is a fantastic sport, just like any other sport, it is good for socializing and for health. It can be one hell of an interest.

However Prince was being advised that Interest / Hobby can become addictive if it takes up too much of your time, and sometimes you may not realize that your passion into your interest affect your work performance because you are blinded by your passion into it. Prince has that experience before; he was trained 8 hours a day for a period of more than 2 years during secondary school. He was trained in martial arts, and kickboxing in the North.

Prince loves the sport too much that he is willing to spend an extra 4 hours for training even though his master set it only 4 hours. Eventually, he screwed up his SPM. If prince is willing to put that much of passion into his SPM exam, he may have got his result with flying colors.

Human being is sometimes being conquered by the devil side, become greedy, and wants to own everything, with only 24 hours a day 365 day a year…

Prince Rushing Assignment...

Rushing an assignment is not acceptable or Prince, but, Prince has no choice due to the heavy load from his workplace. He has to juggling his time between working and studying, seems to be stressful for him. He is confident to gain a pass for his assignment without high expectation.

Prince Believes...the story behind

Everything that happen has a story behind the scene, a person should not jump into understanding and jump into conclusion. Prince’s CEO called this “JIUJIT”. The similar theory applies in every facet of human life. A broken family, and people keeps blaming the husband for wrong-doing, but it may not happen if he has a kind and understanding wife? Or the husband is actually beaten the wife though people may blame the wife for infidelity.

One day when you see an individual is beaten up by a group of people on the street, some people may pity the injured individual, but no one will actually have the heart to beat people if nothing goes wrong? Or he is a thief that has inflicted social hatred?

Once prince realizes that he himself has a slight hatred to somebody, though, to upkeep his dignity not to arouse other hatred against to the same person, but he found himself couldn’t stop telling about the truth of that particular person. Other may wonder, she must have done something really wrong, though, it is true that many others have realized the fact. Sometimes, Prince just want to serve other advice by telling the truth, but many people has a different perception, and think that it is good to let them try out themselves.

Prince Business....

Business is everything that brings two ways communication, and profitable through the process. Everyone can start a business, and every human being is able to do business. However, not every business has good prospect though every business makes profit, sometimes, perhaps.

Prince has a little different though about business, everyone on the street can start business, and a mamak stall is also able to bring your enough wealth if you gain the support from your loyalty customer. After sometimes, you will be able to expand your business, expand the number of outlet, and you are still rich. However, it is easier than say!

For a business students like Prince, business is no longer the traditionally way. The old once says, start something small and gains some capital before you invest in others, but prince says, start something you like and that bring a good prospect with possible expansion in future, only then you think of diversification. Since you will be investing into your business, why don’t you treat your business seriously instead of just looking for fund to start something else? In business, we call this diversion and waste of your resource- Time.

Meanwhile, the ultimate goal of a business man should not limit to only profit and wealth, but a large listed company, increase in number with aggressive expansion, and the more you own the merrier. Let’s imagine you have one listed company, and expanded, 10 years later you have another listed subsidiaries and on and on…

The richness you enjoys and the fame you gain is enough to beaten the profit you make from the number of branch you expanded with your small business like every body else. The business goal is not just about growing big, but growing large! And how many people can do that?

Prince FInal Cut...

Memories is something that every human being keep inside of their mind, serving as an experience from the past and present, meanwhile, awaiting for the future to arrive. This movie- The final cut- played by Robin Williams, as a troubled cutter of the bad memories, has in fact given prince some thought about the pro and cons of memories, and the sanctity of privacy.

The movie reflects the advancing of human kind; proceed with the ability to implant a micro chip in human brain that helps to record everything through the human eye- window of every soul. At the end of the day, the cutter will help to edit the memories, leaving only the good scene to showcase for the funeral.

It would be good if every human being is able to look at the past and learn something from them, however, it brings cons, whereby vulnerable human creature may be too grieve over the past, and emotionally carry away….

Prince needs to do Proposal....

Prince was under-pressure to prepare a proposal for million of investment, and two other partners, they have to come out with a proposal to present to management. Never in his life, feeling so stress up and all remained unprepared for the challenge ahead. With his study, and work, prince tends to learn more about life…

Prince said Working Attitude....

What is working attitude? Prince seems to have some problem with his assistance, which appears to be very capable in certain areas but also fueling with her weakness, call for an urgent need of self-realization & reformation.

A person who doesn’t even retrospect will never succeed in career, not even in business. Perhaps, with her over whelming self esteem as a successful dancer, has shaped her character in such way, bringing it into her career which appears inapplicable at all.

Sometimes, a great achievement in something may not necessary means you may do well in others. Most importantly, is to balance it, and absorb only the strength, and minimizing your weaknesses, adaptability needs reformation and radical rethinking in term of approach and working attitude.

This has appeared to be the greatest challenge for Prince with little PR experience to train a person to be a professional PR practitioner. Somehow, a lecturer doesn’t need to be the best doctor in the world to train a medical student to excel in his profession. It is all return to the root problem- character and attitude!

Prince in Dragon Bar...

Second time in Dragon bar, certainly not a pleasant one for prince because he has to drink again, talking about drinking, prince has tried to call for a stop, but once a while in life is inevitable. With his beloved princess, he went to Dragon bar with Simmy boy and Catherine Stuart, everyone seems to have fun, but Prince was quite disturb with the regular clubber in Dragon bar, which made up of teenagers from different pace of life, a rough estimation on their age around 18 to 21, perhaps.

Prince looks at them; feeling disappointed, because they don’t seems to have a life of their own, dying their hair with different types of colors, fooling around with chick, certainly don’t look pleasant at all. But prince’s group of friend still has the enjoyable night of all.

Prince Bought the Christmas Carol...

Christmas Carol as written by Charles Dickens has covered the real dimensional of a society, Prince bought the book from Carrefour, and started to fall in love with such a story of Charles Dickens used to express the society illness during his time. Charles Dickens portray the Christmas ghost, not the scary one, but most importantly, the three ghost from the past, present and future, may have depicted some selfishness and meanness of human being during his time…

Prince & Uncle William...

Prince has never been luckier in his life to know Uncle William, the CEO of his company, who is willing to train him up to be the best. Uncle William has a book of his own, as a Hong Kee, with his many years of experiences in the corporate office, he wrote himself a book, called Uncle William’s fast food for thought in life, management and the family.

To quote a few in his book, Uncle William terms SATAY as “Stop And Think About Yourself”, Uncle William also mentions, every women in this world need MAKE-UP, & it stands for “Marriage, Attention, Kind husband, Emotional Support, Undivided love & Personal Space” Women, in their marriages, needs attention from a kind husband who are able to provide emotional support, with undivided love and reasonable personal space. Certainly, there are a lot for Prince to learn from Uncle William, and hopefully prince never fails him…

Prince Rushing for Assignment...

Prince is running out of time for his second assignment, tight up with his office work has in fact taking up most of his time, eating into his private schedule. The due date for second assignment in on 20th May and Prince haven’t event started yet. Leaving him no choice, but to work extra hard to submit the second assignment, hopefully, he is able to get through it, he knows he will…

Prince-managing kingdom of life...

Prince has been wondered how to shape a person character, and how to face the future. In prince’s way, he was advised very long ago, to treat life as if in a war field. Everything you have now, or you tend to fight for, has no different than fighting in a war. Your life is a war field, a platform for you to win or lose a battle, if you lost; you stand up and fight again, until you reach your grave!

Prince never set rules for work, but he sets rules for himself. He sets principles for himself. Aggressiveness, self-determination, and many more good characters arise inside of a person, who fights for survival in Warfield. Failure leads you to nothing.

However, Prince pondered through the scenario, and he found out that life is not a war field for human being, but life is a kingdom of your own. Human being should not run their life; instead, they should manage their life, it is like managing a kingdom.

Life is just a platform for you to strike.

Study, work, business, and many others that have objectives to serve should be a war. If you treat your study as if in a war, hitting a good grade meaning, winning a war, succeed in business or career development means conquering another part of the world. Managing a life (kingdom) requires different approach than fighting in a life and principles can help you clearly defined your roles.

When you work (war), you know you can not fail, and it helps you to define the critical success factor (character) in order to get promoted (winning a war). Similarly, study (war), you know the critical success factor is to be hard-working and proper time management in order to hit a good grade (winning a war). Hopefully, Prince ‘chicken soup’ helps ‘the confuse one’ to have some good point to start managing their life…

Prince Rules of Work...

What is the rule of work? What is the principle of work? Prince questioned himself and seeking for an answer. Self-determination, self-initiatives, hard-working & many more are to be listed out for an executive who are looking for better career opportunities. Sometimes, these rules are difficult to establish because it can not be clearly defined for the sake of following. Prince believes, childhood experiences can help to shape a person character, and determine how it how a person will be in future, good or bad, there’s no clear explanation of how it was formed. Paradox also plays the role to confuse human being, can you put yourself in the shoe of Prince to understand what is it all about now?

Karma in Sri Hartamas...

What is Karma? Prince wondered. It is a cycle that tends to believe in shaping human behavior for betterment. Prince visited Karma in Sri Hartamas, a pub disco, a usual hang-out place for many executives. Prince was fascinated by the exclusive interior design that filled with Indian flavor, crowded with regular patron making it in fashion! Certainly, Karma is a nice and pleasant hang-out place if you are looking for some oldies tune sometimes.

Prince attends a meeting in Bangi...

Tiredness called, but prince still had to attend a meeting in Bangi, Headquarter for his company. It is a corporate development committee meeting, and meeting up with his CEO and group founder can’t be any merrier. Apart from serious and official discussion about business expansion, group founder and CEO shared their experience in career development and working attitude that can help to shape our future. Although, Prince found it the sharing filled with arrogant speeches, somehow he felt the trueness in the contents. For a person who is able to make it that far, required persistency and self-determination, this is not easily find in any human being, very often, human being shy from mistake and problem, meanwhile, success usually leads to arrogance, and jeopardizing the whole career development of one person. Prince needs to make sure that he retrospect on his mistake often, if any, and continuous improvement for a betterment.

Prince got his Result...

Prince finally got his result for MBA year one final semester, filling with joy, he was surprise that he received credit for the two subjects, at which, one of it, he didn’t even get to attend the class! Fueling with concern and anxiety, he made the worse expectation, was to get a pass for these two subject, somehow, it was better than expected.

Prince was asked if he would afraid of failing the subjects, he said, “I have never fail in my exam before, the worse case scenario is to get a pass.” He knows his effort matches the outcome, and better than expected would be a gift…

Prince of SMiles...

PRINCE SMILES

J Smile to your problem to find a solution! J
J Smile to your weaknesses to rectify them! J
J Smile to your strengths to enhance them! J
J Smile to your competitors to outperform them! J
J Smile to your stress to release them! J
J Smile to your pressure to lighten them! J

J Smile to criticism to review them! J
J Smile to your unfortunates to be happy! J
J Smile to your friends to keep friends with friends! J
J Smile to your colleagues to make the workplace a better place! J
J Smile to your bosses to impress them! J

J Smile what your mum has given you! J

AND

J Smile when you knock the door! J

AND

J Smile when you step out of the room! J

J

Finally,
Laugh when you smile!

Logas n Liz ...L & L... 

when prince a bit high...look at the face, look at the face... oh my god... 

Geraline...look fantastic...would even better if princess si around.. 

wHEN Every one drunk!!! 

The birthday party is sponsored by Marlboro! Just kidding!.. 

Doreen taking lamborghini ohh... 

Caryn (middle)...the birthday girl.... 

Jothan & Liz... 

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OK,,who is the culprit....oh....Logas..and DOreen.... 

All of them folling around in Expanda... 

Doreen & Logas.... 

Simmy, Alex, Jothan and Prince in Expanda..... 

This is where prince sleeps everynight, what a cosy place.....da da da... 

Prince is too free and got nothing to do, snaps his room for your viewing....this is prince small little castle at which he spends most of his time.... 

Prince Shopping...

Prince went shopping today, and he believed that he overspent for this month. He just bought himself a Hi-fi because he can’t live without music. Meanwhile, he also bought himself a shaver at which he believes it would make his life easier. When he arrived home, the first thing he did was to rearrange his room and clean it up! Now he got a total different kind of feel about his room, at least it looks better than before. Simply, under pressure of his MBA study, and worry for his work, he needs something different, and that is what he did! Prince doesn’t have much life, his room is the only place he hang around the most, and he needs it to be different, and most importantly, comfortable! Out of nothing to do, he took a few snaps of his room, showing his little sit-up equipment, bed and his personal work desk! Check that out! What a simple life he has!

Prince Skeptical....

Prince hang out in Steven’s corner tonight with Cath Stuart, Logas, Simmy and Geraline, they chatted along, and shard a lot of childhood experiences. Discussion was on, and they even share their experience on ghost story. The conversation goes on and talk about religion and superstitious.

For Prince, Prince is always skeptical about religion because he believes that religion has become too commercialize whereby every different religion only focus on recruiting more devotee instead of imparting knowledge.

Prince in EXPANDA...

Prince went to Expanda tonight, spending a few hours in Expanda while waiting for the birthday girl to appear. Apparently, there was some miscommunication about the date of celebration, the group of around 12 people thought that it was tomorrow! Anyhow, Mr. Logas settled the miscommunication, and they came finally, arriving at 12.30am. Prince thought everything was being solved, but ironically, some 4 of her friends were underage! Usually, ages don’t really matter much, somehow, the kids just want to have fun, but the bouncer seems to trouble the group. The excuse was that there was a police raid tonight, and a few clubs have been raided, Passion, Rum Jungle & Thai Club, they were just afraid that the cops may drop by just for the fun of it! Prince sometimes wonders what the fuck is wrong with the cops; they raided the places just because a Dato’s son was beaten up by a bouncer last night! And the fault may just lay on the Dato’s son who acted arrogant and LCLY, who knows! Different Social status always gives some people first priority that deprived of others’ right!

Prince thought about Relationship....

Relationship is supposed to be aesthetic; perfection is what every couple looking for. But, how do you term perfection? Many believe that nothing is perfect, except, religion who always emphasize on perfection.

Do you believe in black magic? Previously, Prince called love a black magic, and rationality can overcome black magic, and Prince strongly stands by his statement. Rationality is a solution to black magic. But now, Prince would like to add on that Rationality no longer the only solution, the solution also makes up of attitude / character, relentless, decisive and Rationality, perhaps, can save you from being hurt, but sincerity is still very important when you step into relationship. The solution to black magic only applies when you have a problem.

After written so much about prince point of view in relationship, Prince have somehow be able to re-arrange the fact, and most important all his statements, to create a much more easier understanding about relationship and love.

A couple fall in love with each other, when they found something in common, or touch by the feeling of love flowing from each parties, or the first impression on sight that spark off the “love at first sight”. A progressive and consistent courting assume on both parties, and finally getting together.

During the courting progress, there’s always a parties that plays the dominant role in a relationship, it happens before and after a relationship, and this dominant position may switch, we may also call this as part of the power struggling in relationship, each party fighting with each other verbally, mentally and etc, just to be at the dominant position.

If you are courting a gorgeous lady, apparently, the lady plays the dominant role, because you need to touch her heart and get her attention, and you are trying every best. You will have to fly up to sky and grab the moon for her If she said she like to have the moon on the sky, you basically did whatever she said, though, may not necessarily all.

Once she has fallen in love with you, and emotionally and physically attached to you, the dominant party may change due to a few circumstances, you may be the dominant players because she starts to respect you and listen to you, and care for your feeling. However, her dominant position may stay, if, even if both already into relationship but still assume the mindset of courting, and that could be pretty terrible and misery for one party being dominated!

It is better to assume a balance domination of power, to avoid further power struggling and it can be fostered with mutual respect, love, care, understanding, patient and passion. What’s worse, human being is always selfish, especially man! Yes, even though Prince is a man, Prince still does not deny man is the most selfish creature on earth!

Once the dominant party falls on the man’s hand, and assume balance domination did not happen here, the boyfriends will start to control the his girlfriends. You may find his temper fickle from time to time; he may treat you well sometimes and treat you like shit sometimes. This is because man always fall into a phobia dilemma, whereby, what they see before the relationship and after getting into the relationship is very much different, they may have notice some thing in you that he doesn’t like, and he may start to regret. The dilemma arises because he has invested his feeling, as to whether love you or not love you. If it worsen, he may have lock another target, and be relentless to you.

Personally, this type of guy would be better to dump it! You wouldn’t want someone who does not even know what he himself is up to, and being so blur and immature in relationship.

But the situation will be very much different is both party share equal power through respect, even if relationship encounter problem in term of character or conflict of common interest, it is still much more easier to settle, they may appear to be very clear cut, and never linger with the problem that will lead to suffering at the end of the day.

Different type of relationship reflects different type of personality and character, and even reflects the maturity of the couple’s thinking. For the first scenario Prince explained, the couple may has too much imagination, and basically indulging into a dream instead of a real relationship. Meanwhile, second scenario, who shares mutual respect, and much more mature in handling relationship.

Different expectation

Define your expectation and find a solution or stop the problem; some people thought about relationship as controlling and heavy commitment, some people thought it suppose to be sweet. What about your relationship then? How would you term a perfect relationship? Is perfect relationship a relationship that has no argument at all? Prince considers that is just another excuse for more argument! Perhaps you may ask yourself if you can see a future with him/ her. That’s the main point even without commitment needed. That’s not about thinking of long term or short term relationship, it is about happiness and hopes, because nothing is perfect, problem arises and falls, up and down in life which may hurt you a lot if you set an expectation on your overall relationship.

Problem!

When you have a problem, and have tried many solutions, up and down, then it would be nice to stop the problem form lingering with your life and torturing you! Think big and work on it! Stop=Break-up!

Self confidence is important!

Sometimes, we need to evaluate our relationship as if the good and bad of your guy / girl, and see if the good one outperform the bad one, if not, what is the solution to it, or else no point getting into a relationship with someone who you may hate a lot more than love.

Set your guide

What is your basic requirement for your boyfriends? Set it and easier for you to make decision in future! Some girl likes guy even though he is a naughty, naughty fellow, but at least he is caring! Apparently, she only needs someone who are caring!