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Pricne: The Living SOuls...

The living souls on earth constructed the society backbone, which had, on the other hand, devised many artificial catastrophes that corrupted their own species. As the world is revolving under a big circle that always reaches the same edge, the act of human being, which eventually laid dreadful consequences on human species themselves.

The Kingdom is where all stories begun, and end somewhere around the world. Kingdom itself is magnificent, glorious & living splendid isolation, yet many admire the stories where it begun with and become education for the modern generation. All historical story begun with one kingdom & and it is made-up of live & souls & blood.

The King is autocratical one; good king is made to lead, incapable king is made to sacrifice the nation. Yet, it is hardly to believe the degree of respect paid by their people to the king regardless of King’s ability in managing a nation. Respect is one, but the King is also endowed with the nation wealth, and hundreds & thousands of concubines that never able to glut King’s insatiable lust for more! Gradually indulges in the earth’s heaven till the nation doom, and end with him.

The Councils shall live with integrity, giving proper advice to the King to well-manage the nation; unfortunately it is not true! Counsels are those living cowards, who care only personal welfare, and decision are usually made on their best fit which eventually tumbles a nation, and they will end with the nation.

The Citizen cares only the food & drink; living meagerly, with meager souls, and happy with meager pay; and they pay high tribute to the King, for he is a King; bow & knee for the king for they knows King is not mere human. But, when catastrophe hit the nation, they start to grumble, & moaning, yet never repent for choosing the wrong King; pathetically live with their choice, and end with them.

The Country is where we live, and each living creatures belongs to at least one country. We have the first world nation, for they live with the greatest pride through deprivation of those countries below their league. The strife between countries is greater on trade, with each seeking support from the first world nations, but they neglected the fact that helps do come with sacrifice. There is no sympathy or fair treatment…

The Government should be fair & impartial; yet it is fancied. Stories are always beautifully dressed to deceive; hence, none should ever believe what have heard, saw or read. Experiences also tell that ‘they’ tend to promise for better living, but furtively trade off your welfare. If Government is to blame, what are those behind the government? Experiences tell, it takes ages to get thing done in public department, and it is expeditious if you lay gold coins on the desk or called some big shot, but when issues go hair-wired, scapegoat always appears as one hell good solution when an issue is raised, speculated & inevitable. It has always been the ‘people’…

The people comprises of many races, and with different belief & different cultural value; some are sufficiently educated to be independent while, some, needs assistant to stand up, and some taking sympathy for granted, and lust for more. Those lucky fellows will enjoy the treat derived by depriving others.

The company is members of flourishing capitalist group that gradually become stronger through deprivation of the labor wing. No one can live without their participation as they believe it brings prosperity to ones country. A series of scheme & treaty in favor of the company are devised to lure more investment but ultimately neglected the fact that companies are always profit minded entity. The company enjoys better treat, yet they wish for more, and they squeeze from the nation, and then its labor and never reciprocate. They regard the gains as high achievement but deprivation in actual fact on the eyes of beholders.

The employer & employees are not meant to blend, it has never so. Often, employers do not hire employees, but they married them to the company. As they believe employees should give all to the company after all what they are paid for, and employees should never ask for more, and never ask for return. As employers believe employees should do whatever ask to do, and do it well, and do it high achievement, and never looking forward to glorious & merit as its should belong to employers. However, there are good employers who could generously give out to employees as they speak of, but when recognition is endowed upon achievement, it usually comes with emolument that meagerly given, that inadequate to justify the effort spent for it, for they never consider employees their important assets…for they believe they have given sufficiently, and it is the best to employees…

The employee has always wished for easy money; high pay with less workload is the dream of white collar workers. They never realize company couldn’t pay more without good profit. At the end, they grumble, they complaint, yet still putting their head into their work. They always have their grievances to share, for they believe they have performed the best and had the highest achievement but have never been compensated for all these; at the end, is only blasphemy & deprivation from the boss…

The Family comes through generation and the surname tells about ones family origins. It left foot print for the next generation, and this is how it goes in every family. Belief & way of life are past down & inherited to the next generation; the cultural influences are greater than you & I could imagine; unfortunately, their great grand ancestors do not realize the evolving society has gradually deserted their life-way. For those who still follow, could create a serious impact for the next generation…

The Couple always believe in what they do best for their children; because they embraced their ancestral family value to nurture their offspring. They beat their children over small mistake, for they believe this is the best way to correct misbehavior. They restraint their children from classmates & friends, for they believe this is for their safety; they force them for piano & instrument classes, for they believe this is to nurture their talents; they force their children for achievement, and brag in front of relatives, for they believe they should feel proud for their children…They indulge their offspring exceptional for they believe their own fresh & blood must be kept comfortable… They would believe they are right because they learn it from their parents…

The Children are rebellious, as most children are rebelled against their parents; none of these are their fault because someone has to stand out some how. Children never listens to their parents, they never take advice, and they regard their parents as old & grumble, and irritating & annoying. Nothing happen for no reason because no one can teach a child to be misbehavior unless their parents teach them so…It is always our fault that leads to more faults…hence, hear once, think twice, practice more than thrice, the impact is greater than decades…

Prince: Small Room to LET...!!

Location: Bayu Puteri Apartment, Jalan Tropicana
Facilities: Gym, Swimming Pool & Badminton Court
Accessibilities:

5 minutes to One Utama

10 Minutes to the Curve
20 Minutes to Phileo Damansara
10 minutes to Uptown
8 minutes to Giant Kelana Jaya

Room Condition: Small room is NOT furnished

Apartment Condition: Fully Furnished

Rental: RM 200 (Inclusive of Water & Electricity)

Housemates:
Master Room – A Working Couple in Phileo Damansara
Middle Room – A Working Couple in Dataran Prima

Expectation: (Preferably CHINESE)

Working Adult
Trusted, Friendly & Easy Going
Pay rental on time (before 5th every months)
Care about Cleanliness but Not a Cleanliness Freak!

Availability: Anytime

王子: 五材十過

五材也﹐ 忠﹐信﹐智﹐仁﹐勇
十過也﹐
一﹐ 英勇卻容易衝動﹐
二﹐ 性情急躁不沉著﹐
三﹐ 貪圖小利拜金狂﹐
四﹐ 婦人之人耳朵軟﹐
五﹐ 足智多謀但膽小﹐
六﹐ 守信無知人之明﹐
七﹐ 求己清廉不博愛﹐
八﹐ 無法做當機立斷﹐
九﹐ 性剛愎過份自負﹐
十﹐ 凡事愛推諉他人。

王子: 得失之見

得之我幸﹐失之我命﹐如此而已。

王子: 治家治國

牧羊的小孩 (shepherd) 趕幾百雙羊﹐他指東﹐羊往東邊走﹔他指西﹐羊往西邊走﹔如果讓您牽一雙羊﹐手拿鞭子在後邊趕﹐這雙羊也未必肯聽話。再說﹐會吞沒船雙的八爪魚是不游小河的﹔高飛的大鵬鳥是不肯棲息于污泥的地面。所以﹐要治理大事的人﹐是不去治理瑣碎小事的﹔而要成大功立大業的人﹐也不會荷意去追求小事成功。

王子: 成功因素

卡內基說﹕
一﹐擊敗窮困﹐一切靠自修苦學﹐替自己的未來開路。
二﹐事情不分大小﹐都認真去做﹐要把小事做的好﹐才有人把大事委托給你做。

王子: 孔明知人之道

問之以是非﹐而觀其志。
窮之以詞辯﹐而觀其變。
咨之以計謀﹐而觀其識。
告之以禍難﹐而觀其勇。
醉之以酒﹐而觀其性。
臨之以利﹐而觀其廉。
期之以事﹐而觀其信。

王子: 善惡之分

無善無惡是聖人﹐
善多惡少是賢人﹐
善少惡多是庸人﹐
有惡無善是小人﹐
有善無惡是仙人﹐
先惡後善回頭人﹐
先善後惡倆載人﹐
貌善心惡是奸人。

王子: 做人如豆腐

做人當如豆腐﹐形要方﹐心要軟。
做人當如豆腐﹐ 表面如一﹐內外潔白。
做人當如豆腐﹐ 寧為玉碎﹐不為瓦全。
做人當如豆腐﹐ 犧牲自己﹐胃飽蒼生。
做人當如豆腐﹐可葷可素﹐可盪可炒。
做人當如豆腐﹐越燒越硬﹐越浸越臭。
做人當如豆腐﹐不怕別人多吃﹐就怕別人不吃。

王子:忍才子

君不見﹐如來割身痛也忍﹐
孔子絕糧飢也忍﹐韓信胯下辱也忍﹐
閔子單衣寒也忍﹐師德唾面羞也忍﹐
劉寬污衣怒也忍﹐不疑巫九金欺也忍﹐
張公九世百般忍﹐ 好也忍﹐ 歹也忍﹐
都向心頭自思忖﹐囫圇吞下栗棘蓬﹐
恁時方識真根本。

Prince: The Vision...

I have always have vision, and I have always hated it the most. It is hard to discern truthfulness of it but it does come in handy sometime. I am quite ambivalent now, should I take it or leave it; I have to believe in it if I am to take it or vice versa.

Chinese defines it as ‘fortune telling’, other regards it as superstitious; when others regard it as extra ordinary skills, and the others would regard it as Devilish Deception. When the others regard it as a gift of god, others would regard it as ghostly deception; who is right, who is wrong, depends on your definition. Human are selfish especially when preying on religion to protect their interest, they tend to give you a definition so that you would live believing it, for me, I define it myself so that I live with integrity and honesty…

Prince: What could be worse..?

I have been thinking these few days what could be worse for my career. Office politic penetrated every nook & cranny, all originated from the controller which everyone hated the most; becoming a member of this political delegation. All that I can do now is waiting for the time to pass by, waiting for the moment of risk to arrive at my door front!

It is quite a complicated situation to explain in details but I realize that I might become a puppet to achieve everyone’s hope for the best in the office. Members wish to vote me as the chairmen of Motivation Committee after the resignation of the assistant brand manager; this may not be a good catch, as a chairman to play between the top management & the employees!

However, I have already seen this coming before its arrival; and I have always ready for the games. Let’s see…

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Prince: What make playboy a playboy..?

A fantastic topic to talk of the term that notoriously known as ‘playboy’, who on earth do not know the description who it should allocate for; of course, someone who sleep around and play with love. Playboy is just part of the movie of life, that is why we have playgirl too, and I believe sooner or later, you will find ‘play-transvestite’… anyway, What do you think ‘What make playboy a playboy?

‘The modern magic lamp & the genie’, he gives you what you need the most, romance, love, money, status and any others in your wish list that yet to be fulfilled by any man on the earth. Once you wish come true, the hook is on.

‘Faithful love manipulator’, an expert in manipulating your emotion and in control of you when you think you plays the dominant role in the relationship to ask for what you want.

‘From Sweet talk to unfavorable’, they don’t talk the sweetest in the world but the one that deem impactful on you, and inclined to open the door at the bottom of your heart.

‘From Sensible to Insensible’, he cares what you care the most, and cares what you want the most, before he hit home run & run.

‘Never stand in Quandary (Clear cut)’, he does thing for you without doubt, and whatever you like him to do, but also no guilt of pushing you away when things get done.

‘Love, Hate & Ambivalence’, he is able to make you feel love & hate at the same time, and never allows ambivalence to drive in.

‘Hit Home Run & Run’, he hit harder than anyone else and runs faster than anyone else that you don’t even realize he has run.

‘From thought to Habit and transgression of the fundamental towards addiction’, he is addicted to what he does the best, and become a one way ticket- no return.

Prince: What's require in a relationship...

Relationships always start with opportunity to develop a profound understanding between each others, and in the process, many factors have become significant. One leads to another, all others factors are interlink to become a chain that beholds the relationship; the strength of the chain relies on the depth of understanding between the parties.

‘Expectation’ is hardly as explained in any dictionary; it is not as simple when it is laid in a relationship. The role of expectation is multifold, it can deepen understanding; or it could also be the main cause of conflict. Expectation management is dilemmatic if understanding is insufficient, therewith, neither parties are willing to give-in, and eventually, nothing has been agreed upon. We speak of win-win situation under business context, or ‘no business’; similarly, we speak of win -win situation in relationship where both parties impartially & fairly laid expectation on both with consensus, or ‘ no relationship’. Sometimes, it is difficult to reach win-win situation when one party exerts greater dominant than the others, then compromise becomes crucial, but if, both party insist on their way and do not compromise, that relationship will not work anymore. If one party is ready to compromise, then the ‘compromise’ must make clear & understood by the other party; the least, he/she knows you sacrifice for the relationship & be grateful & appreciate it; also, serving as a reminder to compromiser, ‘serve what you’ve agreed upon with honest & sincerity, faith shall arrive last when sacrifice is slowly seen, fail which conflict arises’.

Perception is an issue when both have a different point of view toward current relationship style. A playboy can lead a promiscuous life style, and continue doing it even with much criticism; this is because they do not see it as a problem. When either party does not see a problem as perceived by another party, the one who perceived the problem is simply self-torturing. Perception is highly related to ones experience in relationship, as such, form a strong belief of what they perceive is right for them. Taking distant relationship as an example, those who believes in it, possibly are those who has an experience & it works, or someone who has ever-blazing faith to believe it may work. ‘The Past shall form a shadow to presence & the future, following you whenever you go, till the dusk, till you manage to drop it behind’. If the present is haunted by the past, it is most likely will form your path towards your future relationship too. To get out of this rut, you need to use your sincerity to influence his/her circle of concern, so that he/she realizes the importance of change.

Faith is a pillar of relationship; it forms yours thought before you see the whole pictures, and leading you into it. Faith will tell you the positive direction, while, shattered faith will direct you to another unfavorable route. Without faith, your effort is futile, your relationship turn sourer than plum, and you begin to wander around with question mark in your mind. Regardless of any kind of dispute, as long as faith exists, it will put thing apart together again. (Ironically, those without faith incline to be more persistent among others, but alike a lost-sheep in the jungle with a wander.)

Making ‘Assumption’ is healthy for relationship provided it tags with faith; Assumption is incomparable to ‘guessing’, because assumption arrives with some logic thinking behind the scene to arrive with a fair & impartial judgment; otherwise, it will only exacerbate the problem. However, philosopher once said that ‘good or bad, any ways, are the choice chosen by those who choose to be it’. If you make a wrong assumption, it means you chose the wrong way. It is not about academic ‘assumption’ we talk about, it is about assuming a past & future scenario in a relationship, it helps to avoid being pessimistic, instead, proactive towards handling a circumstance, and leading you to more understanding. For example, if my partner hardly spends time for me due to her hectic schedule, but sometime, rather, hang around with her best friends; I would assume she is bored with me? Then I will have to re-look into myself. If I would assume she finds it hard to turn her friends down? Then I shall feel empathize for her.

‘Heedful or heehaw’, Communication requires foresight; what the other party perceived what you said or act, will determine the emotional feeling of them. Many relationship ends because of hindsight communication, believing that being hindsight is being frank. I would doubt so, because only children would speak of something that doubtful of the response. In a mature relationship, I would believe even if you have shared the least compare to other couple, you should still have the least understanding about your partner’s attitude, bending towards which direction for her to hear your flow of communication. Being sensible and heedful to your partner is thus important, otherwise, ‘heehaw’.

Making affability part of your life, plant it in your relationship can help to enhance better communication. It bring forth a friendly aura, unambiguous environment that encourage free sharing. Once philosophers said, ‘The devil can smell the kindest, the kindest can smell the ominous’; Communication gets better with affability in you, because he/she can smell it, and talk with you.

Empathic is another important element that ones can not live without in communication. Often, we live in our own world, and neglected people around us, even in our daily communication. Talking, Emailing, SMS-ing, and in any kind of mechanics that deals with people, require empathic, to feel for them, and so they feel for you, and perceive you differently. It is helpful to say ‘It must be hard for you’; ‘I see tiredness in your eye, and my heart sour’, you may call it a sweet talk, but it works because they feel you in their life.