A friend of him, (name him by J since his first name starts with J), whined his problem in his relationship. J has been in a relationship for a year, yet his problem with the partner hasn’t solved.
J’s parent strongly disagrees with his relationship with his girlfriend due to cross-religion affair. Apparently, his parent has tried every possible way to stop him from stepping depth into the relationship
His predicament is well-understood by his girlfriend, and his girlfriend is suggesting for a break-up if thing doesn’t work out. While, J is whining away his problem, yet no trace of solution to be found, prince has some thought about it…
There are problems in every relationship, regardless of whatever relationship, friend, family, or husband and wife. What matters most, is how you want to deal with it, and in what perspective you allow yourself to view your problem.
‘Nothing is impossible’ and ‘impossible is nothing’, may be the same statement but giving different meaning at all.
If a relationship is destined to break up for a tiny matter, as either party has insisted of doing so, then it is better to break-up. Why?
It is because, the party has given up the hope, and takes a different view on the problem, giving no room for ‘seeking solution’, then it is better break-up before it is too late. Why again?
It is because if break-up is the first thing appears in your mind in whatever problem occurs, imagine yourself in your marriage where you live with your partner, and seeing him/her everyday; bound to have problem, and ‘break-up’ will transform to ‘divorce’; and divorce will be the first thing appears as a solution instead of looking for a better solution..
There is up and down in a life time, and if break-up or divorce is your solution to problem, then your problem will go unsolved. At least, give it a try before you voice out the ultimate solution.
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