Prince: Distance Relationship...

Have you been into a distance relationship before? People always perceive distance relationship as impossible and short term, because couple is unable to see each other, and live together. However, it may be true sometime, yet it still very much depends on ones perception. There are a few areas which a couple needs to understand before they set their mind for something they do not sure in future.

Feeling of Love- The feeling of love is very important in a relationship, where you need to make sure you fall in love with your love one, and not just love. Falling in love in a relationship will create happiness, and anxiety to see each other. When the anxiety has faded in the process that shows that the feeling has stopped sparkling. It always true for distance relationship, not because they are unfaithful but the love faded due to a few issues, such as boredom, hassle, busy-ness and argument. One may argues that the love is not strong since they can not sustain and faded, it will then lead to another stage as below…

Responsibility and Commitment- Couple in distance relationship can easily fall into the obligation trap; this is when responsibility and commitment become an obligation. Both party does something for the sake of obligation, which in turn forgo many opportunity in life which can be better and happier to choose. They want to make their relationship sustainable under any kind of pressure, but this may be too naïve in thinking yet it is not impossible since human being always like to become ‘the one’ out of millions.

The Possibility of success – The possibility of a distance relationship to get on track again is hard to determine. It depends on the frequency of meet up and the social circle of the couple and it will eventually drill down to the personality and character of the couple on how they handle situation.

Circle of Friends- The circle of friend will eventually changed, with one party at the other environment, and the other party stays put. The possibility of environment changes the social circle is high, and changes lead to change in thinking and personality. Sooner or later, both will find not suitable for each other.