It is sad to know that some female individual claims male species are jerk, of course to certain extend, some male individual is jerk but not all perhaps. Prince hopes this write up can help female individual to understand more about male. It is advisable that every female and male should try to understand human behavior and so, not to be cheated by others in the society easily, at least. How human behavior works, the principle of causation applies, always, in every human behavior, but it requires meticulous observation to understand the hidden character.
Lets’ start our discussion lightly with question; have your boyfriend ever ask you for sex? If they did, how it comes about? If your boy friend is seeking for sex in your relationship, it is still acceptable if you are willing to give, perhaps, you may have your own thought, but if you have a different point of view, and rejected your boy friend in this particular request, he can be very frustrated and disappointed if he doesn’t understand you. However, if he is some types of a jerk (as some female has proclaimed), he will try his ever best to trick and trap you into this, the very norm is to make you feel guilty and ask you to prove by doing what he wishes you to do. Prince called this ‘trick of goad’, which stimulate your self-instinct of esteem power for honesty. They will first blame you for not giving them, and threatened you with some soft, could be a break up or many others, or they may even claims that you lie to him, perhaps having affair with others, and eventually asking you to prove it by giving it to him. It works for those innocent ladies, but not those smarter than them, thus, please be advised not to be easily fall into the trap, and put yourself in an alert mode for rationality. Man are crafty, thus, be beware.
When human needs something in return, they tend to try their ever best to obtain it, this help to serve their self-esteem, greediness and desire. However, with this type of mind set, will not ensure a long term commitment in a relationship, Prince dares to challenge every male species out there, who dare to claim he has not been through this. In relationship, they treat their favorable female partner better, and always promise to give the best; this is because their female partner has yet to take the bait. They simply wait, and try their ever best to talk the fish (female) into the bait (bed). You may sense their hostility / transformation after you are hook, worse still, you won’t even know if you are hooked! This is the nature power of a man, however, this is also the most childish thinking instill in a man (this is why many ladies called them jerk!)! Man is willing to even run up the moon to pluck it down for you when you asked for it! Man will fake themselves for anything they wish to obtain, thus, do beware.
A man in commitment is a man in honor? This is when men are willing to pick up the responsibility which many think; because man is usually rather running away from responsibility. However, Prince may not think it is the true explanation of the statement, or perhaps, not all. First of all, by looking at those male who hang around at night club, perhaps, prince can say more than half of it is already committed to someone in some soft, either boy friend or wife. However, what is the intention behind the rock, do you think they are merely there for a drink or dance? Many male individual cannot afford to run away from their own lust and desire, especially if they come across a pretty, hot and sexy female individual. The first symptom – they stick their eyes on them, (believe it or not, most of the male individual does that), second of all, their lust will push hem toward the female individual, to know them and to talk to them, somehow this may not necessarily happen to every male individual but prince believes the least 90% of them. Third of all, some male doesn’t dare to go for it, and that is the coward instinct that stops them from doing so, because they dare to be overwhelmed by their own lust but do not dare to accept the challenge. If they go for it, and that further enhance their desire, they will find way to be closer to you and asking for more…especially when it comes to sex! Men dare to do anything as their lust wish, thus, do beware.
Man at older age tend to treat their fond girl better than other, it is very difficult to judge if they are real, but most often they are real at this age. Well, let’s say a man is hitting 30 or 40, they are financially stable and career pathway is clearer in life, however, if they started a relationship at this age, they tend to treat their fond one better, because they are tired of looking around now. They are merely looking for someone to accompany them for the rest of their life, and as long as it looks so-so, and not too bad, or little feeling shall be alright for them.
Why men buy lingerie for their wife or girlfriend, they simply expecting their wife or girl friend to wear it for them. This is the ultimate fact about man, they always perform certain thing according to their wish, if they buy you a ring, certainly, they expect you to wear it, if they buy you some vegetable and fish, certainly they expect you to cook for them right away, a second delay or grumpy will certainly turn them off, men are always selfish though…this you must understand, just beware…
What can be a perfect relationship, long term relationship or flawless romance? A relationship should start with give and take, certainly with more ‘give’ than take, and both parties must understand how to give before take in a right manner. This starting point must be very clear, and that you start it with love, not to wish for something in return, this is wrong to do it in such a way, and here’s no different than those jerks (male) as they (female) claims out there. A relationship must be clear that love is a feeling and commitment is a burden in a relationship, however, if you start with love, and adopt the ‘give’ philosophy without asking for any return, then commitment will not be a burden for you anymore, instead, it is a gift. Both parties are willing to do anything, basically, for each other, without complaining. Both parties must respect each other, no trick and no trap, no hurting and no forcing. Willingness and sacrifice may be very important but must do it in a correct way; sex with no feel, no respect, no willingness and worse still no love is not a sacrifice! It is then merely a pleasing material in relationship, and can be scraped anytime when interest faded away…
Thursday, July 21, 2005
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