Thursday, July 21, 2005

Prince: Trust....

Trust is one of the most vital elements in a relationship, or any other daily communication with people who are inter-related to you or non-related to you. People simply do not know how to build trust, which sometime ruins their relationship with their fellow peers.

There is always a way to build trust in life, one of it which prince believes, very effective in its nature is to be transparent to people you meet. Prince does not deny that every human being has secret but the degree of confidential is in contrary with transparent and trust. The more you hide from people, the lowest degree of trust you obtain from your fellow peers, and your relationship partners. Thus, human bring needs to determine the degree of trust they intend to build among their fellow peers before they start thinking about building trust.

Trust is a vital element in life, you need trust in work, in relationship, in family, and it inter-related too many areas of your life. Transparent may be one thing, but in order to achieve it, you need to build in your personal value of open-minded and the degree of receptivity to others as well. If you have a low degree of acceptance, then you may not be able to receive transparent from others. You self hindrance has made other to be non-transparent to you due to the hesitation that they have perceived on you.

For example, if you are narrow minded or embracing a traditional thought due to the different upbringing, it may some how prevent other to be transparent to you. Once you hear it, know it, or feel the transparent, can instantly creates discomfort or anxiety, if worse, it may even instill hatred and anger in you towards those who have tried to be transparent with you.

Meanwhile, do remember, if you want other to trust you, you shall then try to trust other first, and if you want other to be transparent to you, you shall then make transparent to others, certainly with a high degree of acceptance to matter.

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