Monday, March 07, 2005

Outing...Relationship...Get Hook-Up....

We plan to hang around at Coffee Bean; somehow, we ended up in leisure mall, a café around Taman Segar. It’s a newly set-up café with just a small number of people over there. We order a jug of beer. In fact, I can’t really finish it. I think Beer has just left my life, being replaced with strong liquor though. Cat and Logas are chatting, and we start to talk about our ex- girlfriend, and what would be our perception toward relationship.

I have always considered relationship as a two ways communication and sacrifice. I am a person with quite a character. Cat asked me how I can fall in love. Personally, I will not engage myself in aggressive courting that would prove other about “Love is blind”. Meanwhile, I will only engage in the process of pursuing if I found myself having fondness for her, at the same time, she likes me too.

I certainly will not go ahead with it if the fondness only comes from one side, either she or me. That’s my perception, I do like to believe that a tough move will impress the opposite sex, even though; they do not have the fondness initially. But, I prefer to believe that a relationship would kick start only when fondness is ignited between couples, naturally.

Relationship is supposed to be aesthetic, not materialistic. If that you have to impress some one to light to fondness in her or him, that won’t be a long term relationship, and the possibility that you being carried away by the emotion of the moment is high! Eventually, the balance of love will not exist; you tend to realize, you love her more than she love you or either way!

Come back to our hangout in the café, there’s a PR lady accompanies us. When we took off, she was waiting at the door for so long, looking at me. I show a sign of asking for her number, I assume that she won’t give me, because PR was not allow to give out their personal number. However, I ask a favor from Logas to collect the number, since i am reversing my car.

Reluctantly, Logas went down the car. I thought he going to get a rejection though, who know he came back with a number. Yes, he got it. We got the first call from ‘May’, in my car asking me to drive slowly. Ok, that’s pretty weird though. After the day, she called me a few times, but I wasn’t able to communicate properly with her. She can only understand Cantonese, and I can’t really converse well in Cantonese.

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