Prince lives by Give and take

Prince lives by the rule of ‘give and take’, and he believes human being should try to give before they think of taking. In management, employee can’t go any further without training; training can come in as formal and informal, informally, it refers to informal training such as imparting knowledge through daily routine, it is a day to day process, and if you tend to control and spoon-feed your employee, you are creating a culture of passiveness.

You need to understand the theory of give, give means giving out your authority through delegation, and empower your employees for decision making. Give also means giving out your knowledge to share with them. You take only when they are able to give, and you take the hidden credit- respect and leadership, meanwhile, status can be built through share of credit (outcome).

Individualistic is very important in one company, you can not afford to plan for a project, drilling from up to bottom, judging at the macro and micro perspectives. As a top management, prince believes Macro should be taken up by them, and the micro- the nitty-gritty matter should be given to employees, treating it as a learning process for employee. It help to train their self-initiative ness, empower them and spur their creativity and innovative. However, when employees are indulged too much in work, the culture has been fostered, seems difficult to over turn anymore.

Prince Rich Richer RIchest...

Human being is the most selfish creature in the world, the world can be better off if we have an additional 10% of unselfish human on earth. Many rich people, is only rich for themselves, without considering making other around rich, and doubt if they can move further in their life. Rich is a materialistic dimension in one life, it can lead to devil and evil of your own. When riches bring you up a better life, living with luxurious, you tend to forget people around you, who far below you, and you have in fact isolated them. Them, as refer to your friends, relatives, the poor and the ordinary people you know or may not know. When do you consider yourself as rich? Are you rich when you living luxuriously with state of art tailored made mansion and sitting comfortably in a limousine? How much are you willing to give out to make other as rich as you? Are you willing or can you do that? People who can not make people rich as how rich they are, is not rich enough! They are nothing on earth, just like ordinary people on the street, and there is thousand of it.

Prince has different objectives and ambition in life, apart from being rich, Prince want to be richer than ordinary rich people. None of the human being on earth can deny rich, and rich is the dream of every teenager, but how far can they go? When they are rich, can they help people by giving out to make people rich? Only the richest can do that prince believes. He dreams of richest, because richest comes with high and credible status.

Prince roads towards success taking a few steps up…Academically (knowledge), Career (something gives you fix income), Politic (Status) & Business (something give you much more than career). Prince believes everything is achievable through step by step, starting from study, as prince believes, finishing his academic life is a must, meanwhile, developing his career is in parallel with his study life. To certain point of time, when he is ready, he is well-prepared to start something different and new, which is his own business that comes together with status.

There is a lot more to work for in life, throughout the process, you have to continuously think of how to increase your credibility in the society, building up your status, and gain fame across boundaries before you retired, only then you are able to bring people around you up on par with you, without isolating them…

Prince Love & Affection...

A few days ago, Prince wrote something about parenting thought; somehow, Prince did not mention clearly what is love and affection with reward and promise. Parent must also remember that love is an aesthetic feeling, and must ensure a continuous flow of it. Love and affection, generally arouses when you realize yourself.

Parent must not bring their frustration and disappointment home, nothing awful should be shown in front of their children until their children have the reasoning ability. It is simply not easy to have free flow of love and affection, with much self-conscious, to realize what one is doing.

Reward and promise can be far easier than love and affection, in term, but reward and promise without real love and affection are no better than a cold lie. When a child does wrong, you can make him ‘promise’ with your ‘promise’, and eventually, rewards as reinforcement, to correct his misbehave.

For example; ‘Sweetie, this is wrong, if you do it again, daddy will not love you anymore, you must promise daddy you will not misbehave, and if you be really good, daddy will buy a story book’

Do you see a promise that creates another invisible promise? And;

Do you see a reward?

How the reward is going to affect the child?

If the reward is a movie pass, Pizza Hut, Computer Game or Money term, will it generate a greater impact in character building process?

What will happen if the parent beat, reprimand, scold or engage any soft of punishment on the child?

There is always a catch, and whatever the parent will do, aim to correct the child negative character, always leads to the same outcome, but different approach.

Prince was once told, 3 persons who are hungry, cook for themselves the similar dish, at the end of the day, they manage to fill-up their stomach, solving the major problem- hungry, but here comes a doubt, how tasty and delicious are the food?

All the parent knows, is to correct the children character, forcing them to be good. Here comes a doubt, How good they do it?

Prince Learns Formating...

Prince is having problem with his baby laptop, getting ‘hang’ all the time, affecting his work efficiency. He hates this, and has to take the harsh way to punish his baby, which is ‘FORMAT’. Perhaps prince has expected this day, thus, he bought an external hard disk long ago storing all the important files asides from the internal hard disk. One more areas which price frustrated is, there should be one IT fellow in the company who can help to carry all the IT work, judging at how much time prince needs to spend to format a computer, has affected prince works for the day…He may just be hand the task over to IT fellow instead of DIY…

Prince Parenting Thought...

Throughout the two month period in kindergarten, dealing with 350 children that have different character, and observing 350 ways of parenting approach, Prince still believes that children are born to be kind. When come to mistake, Prince found out that it is the parent that does not perform their responsibilities with necessary parenting knowledge.

How many parents in Malaysia know about parenting? Parenting knowledge is like mathematic, English Language or Algebra … a subject that should become part of the education system, in the syllabus to impart the knowledge of parenting to teenager or couple before married, to ensure they know the right way of nurturing their children. No one can deny parenting subject, neither can you deny to learn English language or mathematic.

Very often, parent and teacher blame each other for their children wrong-doing and misbehave, and often believe in ‘Born to be wild’ theory or ‘Born with Similarities’ Theory. On the contrary, Prince believes that the parent is the culprit. Parent should be blame for the children negative character of stubborn, introvert, timid, rebellious, intolerance…

The root problem is no longer on how their children should behave (behavioral) or how the parent should nurture your children (nurturing skill), but it somehow reflects back to time when the children first born and how you started nurturing them (parenting skill).

Parent should always remind themselves, to adopt a moderate approach in nurturing, and it is in fact, a very subjective dimension in parenting, as the level varies depend on situation, parents should not pamper a child too much, neither too harsh to a child, slight punishment is necessary to discipline the children, but yet explanation must be given first. Parent should not engage unnecessary physical punishment to their children because it will lead to the psychology sequelae that haunt their childhood memories.

Parenting has never become a fanatical issue in Malaysia until lately; the fueling numbers of abuse cases have threatened the social stability. Nowadays, parent nurtures their children the same way as they were brought up, and it is totally wrong. There are guidelines to nurture children, and was research proven effective, at which it helps to grow the children, not just physically but also mentally and emotionally.

Story about Beethoven has in fact triggered some fact about parenting, although, he, eventually become the well-known pianist in the industry. Beethoven was not properly brought-up, and suffered an unpleasant childhood memories, and he treated piano as the only way to release his anger. Although he becomes well-known with his gifted-expertise, but do you think he is happy? The situation will be different if he is happily and willingly chosen music, and venture into his interest instead of by luck or by fate he dipped into it.

One common mistaken committed by most of the parent is to force their child into performing their own interest or something that they miss out during their own childhood. Parent, nowadays, pressuring their children academically, enrolling their children into ballet, piano session, drawing class and many more, how many parent actually do it for the sake of their children interest?

Though many parents believes that it is for the benefit of their children, but ignoring the children own interest, and forcing them to learn something they do not fancy, may not work at the end of the day. Even if it works out effectively that they become someone in future, but it will affect them psycho-logic subconscious mind. Many real life cases have proven this pathetic scenario, hardly believe to be true, whereby, students finish their degree in Doctorate, Engineering or Nursing, but later abandon their professional field and joins the music industry, or taking up their interested subject. Coco Lee, the famous singer is a Medical Doctor in Practice, and many other examples that shows how the children succumb to their parent decision in childhood.

If you ask an adult who success in their career, they usually attribute their success to their parent enforcement, punishment and reprimanding, especially in Chinese community. How many of them can actually tell you, ‘I am successful because it is my interest, and with the support for my parents is an added advantage’, instead, they will usually said, ‘My parent want me to become a pianist and enroll me into the class, forcing me and sometimes scold me for not performing well, without them I will not be who I am today’. The above two statements, although it results to the same outcome, but a different approach that has implanted the psychological sequelae on the children, subconsciously.

How parent nurture their children can help to shape their character in future. Successful figure usually attribute their success to their parents passion in nurturing them, but describing the so-called ‘nurturing’ as forcing, scolding, beating, instead of ‘supporting’, that has led to their success. Will this method work for the rest of the children or has it proven effective? Yes, it was proven effective through the personal experience of some parent but they did not realize that it constitutes influential psychology sequelae to their children, and it is risky, because if it fails, the children will become rebellious, or leading to many other negative character. Worse still the children lose their freedom to choose, and may become timid in future.

A scenario:-

You have two children- John & Eric. One day you read both academic report cards. You reprimand and punish John who fails his exam, meanwhile you rewards Eric who obtain a distinction. Even though you may have explained to John for his wrong-doing, but anger may have conquered his subconscious mind, emotionally filled with anger, looking at how you reward Eric and start to judge. He may have strive better in his study, and become a better person in future, but you subconsciously implanted Sibling rivalries! Or if you did not punish John, you are then pampering him for wrong doing. Again, this is a very subjective discussion for what should be done. There is always a way to cope with this situation, but how much parenting knowledge does a parent know?

Parent believes that they have to do some soft of enforcement or slight punishment, however, reward and promise are always better than punishment and enforcement, and it has to start young, or else no matter how you reward and promise in future, doesn’t seem effective anymore, furthermore, parent must have integrity and must be a promise keeper. Parent must fulfill what they have promised, and appropriate reward is important. Reward can not come in the form of material, though, sometimes, it is inevitable, but certainly can not allow your children the wrong direction. It may help to implant the materialistic dimension during children character developing period.

Meanwhile, fairness and shared of love and affection are important dimension of nurturing a children, parents tend to give their love and affection more to the youngest child, and enforces on the eldest one, and they always believe that the eldest assumes the ‘Big Brother’ role in family to take care of the youngest, pressuring the eldest child. This will ultimately instill sibling rivalries, very often, when you talk to any adult who happen to be the eldest in family, they will tell you how they parent pamper their sister or brother, and they will relate their different childhood experience among the siblings by comparing with them personally, appears to be distinctive and harsh, the process of them, relating their experience proves the theory of Sibling rivalries.

Meanwhile, if someone tell you how their parents enforce them since young, and how strict their parents are, for example, ‘I have to buy everything with my own money, but my sister and brother got everything free from my parents’; ‘last time, my parent don’t allow me to eat if I fail my exam’; ‘my parent will beat us up for wrong-doing, but I am a successful person today’. All these statements show the psychology sequelae from their childhood, and that, in future, if they are not properly told about parenting knowledge, they may nurture their children the same way as they were brought up.

These statements also show some minor sibling rivalries and dissatisfaction towards parent although they still respect and being filial. They ultimately channel their hatred towards their siblings. Meanwhile, although, they may still love their parents, but for some children, they may just hate their parent for that for the rest of their life!

How often people will tell you how much their parent loves them instead of how strict their parent enforces them? How often do you hear they praise their parents for their love and affection, such as walking under rain just to get them to hospital? If you place yourself as the observing party, you may have notice the degree of parenting knowledge among all others.

Lastly, husband and wife relationship also play an important role in the process of nurturing their children, especially in character building. If husband tends to isolate the wife when walking together, either one at the front, or one at the back, minds their own business. Certainly, their children may not receive the necessary attention at home, equally from their parents.

Parent is a role model for their children, they are the home teacher for their children, and most importantly, they spend most of the time with their children. A couple that always gives each other, their children, morning kisses, good night kisses, or calling each other honey and darling, and calls their son or daughter sweetie, will certainly help to create a far more different type of ‘home’. No one can tell if this can help to nurture them to become the future ‘Prime Minister’, but certainly, you will feel the warmness with love and affection at home, and under this circumstance, the children feels the loved.

As a conclusion, Prince always believes in happy children theory, regardless of how they will become in future either a CEO or Doctor. Happy Children Theory tells that children, throughout the proper nurturing and character building process will become someone with a good attitude in future, with sense of responsibility and retrospective. There are cases where the son was detained for burglary, but parent keep insisting that their child behave well at home. Certainly, they child behave well at home if you tend to enforce them, and they become someone else once they step out of the house. Different children needs a different approach, and as a parent, must be able to discern children behavior. Some children are introvert, and will succumb to enforcement, they will just quiet and abide. Some children, the more you enforce the more rebellious they become. The best way, still to use what we called, love and affection with reward and promise, you may wonder what that is…

Prince Watched Suspect ZERO...

Prince watched the movie-Suspect Zero! Something about FBI and psychologist, a serial killers that killed randomly without pattern and repetition behavior, making it difficult for FBI to catch the suspect.

The detective believes that serial killer has a pattern, repetitive behavior at which a police & criminal psychologist are able to construct the behavioral and forecast the next incident. However, in this case, the theory of suspect zero is on the contrary.

Meanwhile, one former FBI agent was trained under Remote Viewer ability, whereby, he is able to view something in a distance or see things before happens. Prince wondered if the movie is based on some psychological facts, but prince believes remote viewer exists and serial killer has a pattern.

Prince said the old one said...

The old once says nothing can change what you are but not who you are! The theory makes some sense, you can not change the fact that you are a human, but you can change your status and character to become a better human-being! No one s born perfect…how you shape yourself depends on how your parent nurtures you in future since born…

Prince thought of Weakness...

What make man and woman perfect? The answer is almost none, but there’re some guidelines to follow, to foster a better relationship. What make a relationship goes sour and dry, and eventually fail, it is because a couple, both parties, usually make 6 mistakes that eventually jeopardize a relationship. Meanwhile, before we proceed into discussing the common mistake, some general character that a man and woman should have, which is honesty, faithfulness, thoughtful and understanding.

The 6 common mistakes that a man or woman usually commit are:

Nagging – no matter man or woman, they hate nagging, and usually you won’t know if you are actually nagging. Nagging is a common mistake committed by woman than man. The more you nag, the more irritated a man feel, and they will try to avoid you. There’s a reason why man doesn’t want to go home sometime, because they don’t feel at home.

Jealousy- a big mistaken committed by man and woman, man can not afford to see their woman going out with other man, or woman can not afford to see their man having dinner with other woman.

Intolerant – narrow-minded- Woman or man usually argues over small issues.

Controlling – “you can not go out tonight!”, ‘No, I don’t like it’… this happen most of the time without explanation, they tend to feel that their partner does not spend enough time with them, and tend to control them. It can come in many scenarios, and it is for you to observe.

Cohesive – no matter what you do, where you go, he / she want to follow all the time, and they expect for a 24 / 7 / 365 services! It scares people away, losing personal freedom…

Suspicious – one day you come home with your shirt untie, then disaster happen!

Meanwhile, they told prince that to be a top salesman, you need to have the following things, and it can also be the 4 major weakness of a man!!!

Whoring – entertaining customer in SPA!
Gamble – Entertaining customer in Casino!
Drink – Entertaining customer in Pub, Disco, Karaoke and Café!
Eat – Entertaining customer in restaurant (the most basic one)!

Prince learns from time...

Prince is learning every day, and whenever he came across something in life, he observed, he learned, and he shared. Prince wondered what a human being can learn from ant, perhaps, Hardworking & persistence.

Prince is thinking of ‘Time’, as the pendulum swing, it swings the time away. Although Pendulum may stop to swing, but the time keep going on in life.

Prince bought princess a watch, symbolizes ‘Time’, his love and feeling towards princess is like ‘Time’, never stop and never give up…

Time never stop in the past, present or future, Time goes on and on, and it becomes longer and more if you count by days. Love and feeling grow more and more without diminishing as time goes on…and this is what we can learn from time…persistence… never give up…

Prince goes....

Prince was supposed to go clubbing tonight, but feeling tired after rushing the stupid assignment, he planned to ask for a rain-check.

Fueling with the desire to see princess, he somehow went out and spent the night with her, in Hartamas coffee bean, talking about experience and has become the most meaningful session of understanding for both of them.

Prince bought something for princess, a watch; prince spent the whole day running around looking for a good one, and plan to carve a message on it, unfortunately, the watch with limited space, unable to accommodate any message.

There is a reason why Prince chooses watch….

Prince at Steven Corner...

Prince went out yam cha in Steven’s Corner and played pool with Cath Stuart. Both of them are thinking of someway to kill time, some other has their own way of killing time. Logas and Simmy boy attended the Salsa Conference, with Liz-the Dancer, I may regard. Dancing is a fantastic sport, just like any other sport, it is good for socializing and for health. It can be one hell of an interest.

However Prince was being advised that Interest / Hobby can become addictive if it takes up too much of your time, and sometimes you may not realize that your passion into your interest affect your work performance because you are blinded by your passion into it. Prince has that experience before; he was trained 8 hours a day for a period of more than 2 years during secondary school. He was trained in martial arts, and kickboxing in the North.

Prince loves the sport too much that he is willing to spend an extra 4 hours for training even though his master set it only 4 hours. Eventually, he screwed up his SPM. If prince is willing to put that much of passion into his SPM exam, he may have got his result with flying colors.

Human being is sometimes being conquered by the devil side, become greedy, and wants to own everything, with only 24 hours a day 365 day a year…

Prince Rushing Assignment...

Rushing an assignment is not acceptable or Prince, but, Prince has no choice due to the heavy load from his workplace. He has to juggling his time between working and studying, seems to be stressful for him. He is confident to gain a pass for his assignment without high expectation.

Prince Believes...the story behind

Everything that happen has a story behind the scene, a person should not jump into understanding and jump into conclusion. Prince’s CEO called this “JIUJIT”. The similar theory applies in every facet of human life. A broken family, and people keeps blaming the husband for wrong-doing, but it may not happen if he has a kind and understanding wife? Or the husband is actually beaten the wife though people may blame the wife for infidelity.

One day when you see an individual is beaten up by a group of people on the street, some people may pity the injured individual, but no one will actually have the heart to beat people if nothing goes wrong? Or he is a thief that has inflicted social hatred?

Once prince realizes that he himself has a slight hatred to somebody, though, to upkeep his dignity not to arouse other hatred against to the same person, but he found himself couldn’t stop telling about the truth of that particular person. Other may wonder, she must have done something really wrong, though, it is true that many others have realized the fact. Sometimes, Prince just want to serve other advice by telling the truth, but many people has a different perception, and think that it is good to let them try out themselves.

Prince Business....

Business is everything that brings two ways communication, and profitable through the process. Everyone can start a business, and every human being is able to do business. However, not every business has good prospect though every business makes profit, sometimes, perhaps.

Prince has a little different though about business, everyone on the street can start business, and a mamak stall is also able to bring your enough wealth if you gain the support from your loyalty customer. After sometimes, you will be able to expand your business, expand the number of outlet, and you are still rich. However, it is easier than say!

For a business students like Prince, business is no longer the traditionally way. The old once says, start something small and gains some capital before you invest in others, but prince says, start something you like and that bring a good prospect with possible expansion in future, only then you think of diversification. Since you will be investing into your business, why don’t you treat your business seriously instead of just looking for fund to start something else? In business, we call this diversion and waste of your resource- Time.

Meanwhile, the ultimate goal of a business man should not limit to only profit and wealth, but a large listed company, increase in number with aggressive expansion, and the more you own the merrier. Let’s imagine you have one listed company, and expanded, 10 years later you have another listed subsidiaries and on and on…

The richness you enjoys and the fame you gain is enough to beaten the profit you make from the number of branch you expanded with your small business like every body else. The business goal is not just about growing big, but growing large! And how many people can do that?

Prince FInal Cut...

Memories is something that every human being keep inside of their mind, serving as an experience from the past and present, meanwhile, awaiting for the future to arrive. This movie- The final cut- played by Robin Williams, as a troubled cutter of the bad memories, has in fact given prince some thought about the pro and cons of memories, and the sanctity of privacy.

The movie reflects the advancing of human kind; proceed with the ability to implant a micro chip in human brain that helps to record everything through the human eye- window of every soul. At the end of the day, the cutter will help to edit the memories, leaving only the good scene to showcase for the funeral.

It would be good if every human being is able to look at the past and learn something from them, however, it brings cons, whereby vulnerable human creature may be too grieve over the past, and emotionally carry away….

Prince needs to do Proposal....

Prince was under-pressure to prepare a proposal for million of investment, and two other partners, they have to come out with a proposal to present to management. Never in his life, feeling so stress up and all remained unprepared for the challenge ahead. With his study, and work, prince tends to learn more about life…

Prince said Working Attitude....

What is working attitude? Prince seems to have some problem with his assistance, which appears to be very capable in certain areas but also fueling with her weakness, call for an urgent need of self-realization & reformation.

A person who doesn’t even retrospect will never succeed in career, not even in business. Perhaps, with her over whelming self esteem as a successful dancer, has shaped her character in such way, bringing it into her career which appears inapplicable at all.

Sometimes, a great achievement in something may not necessary means you may do well in others. Most importantly, is to balance it, and absorb only the strength, and minimizing your weaknesses, adaptability needs reformation and radical rethinking in term of approach and working attitude.

This has appeared to be the greatest challenge for Prince with little PR experience to train a person to be a professional PR practitioner. Somehow, a lecturer doesn’t need to be the best doctor in the world to train a medical student to excel in his profession. It is all return to the root problem- character and attitude!

Prince in Dragon Bar...

Second time in Dragon bar, certainly not a pleasant one for prince because he has to drink again, talking about drinking, prince has tried to call for a stop, but once a while in life is inevitable. With his beloved princess, he went to Dragon bar with Simmy boy and Catherine Stuart, everyone seems to have fun, but Prince was quite disturb with the regular clubber in Dragon bar, which made up of teenagers from different pace of life, a rough estimation on their age around 18 to 21, perhaps.

Prince looks at them; feeling disappointed, because they don’t seems to have a life of their own, dying their hair with different types of colors, fooling around with chick, certainly don’t look pleasant at all. But prince’s group of friend still has the enjoyable night of all.

Prince Bought the Christmas Carol...

Christmas Carol as written by Charles Dickens has covered the real dimensional of a society, Prince bought the book from Carrefour, and started to fall in love with such a story of Charles Dickens used to express the society illness during his time. Charles Dickens portray the Christmas ghost, not the scary one, but most importantly, the three ghost from the past, present and future, may have depicted some selfishness and meanness of human being during his time…

Prince & Uncle William...

Prince has never been luckier in his life to know Uncle William, the CEO of his company, who is willing to train him up to be the best. Uncle William has a book of his own, as a Hong Kee, with his many years of experiences in the corporate office, he wrote himself a book, called Uncle William’s fast food for thought in life, management and the family.

To quote a few in his book, Uncle William terms SATAY as “Stop And Think About Yourself”, Uncle William also mentions, every women in this world need MAKE-UP, & it stands for “Marriage, Attention, Kind husband, Emotional Support, Undivided love & Personal Space” Women, in their marriages, needs attention from a kind husband who are able to provide emotional support, with undivided love and reasonable personal space. Certainly, there are a lot for Prince to learn from Uncle William, and hopefully prince never fails him…

Prince Rushing for Assignment...

Prince is running out of time for his second assignment, tight up with his office work has in fact taking up most of his time, eating into his private schedule. The due date for second assignment in on 20th May and Prince haven’t event started yet. Leaving him no choice, but to work extra hard to submit the second assignment, hopefully, he is able to get through it, he knows he will…

Prince-managing kingdom of life...

Prince has been wondered how to shape a person character, and how to face the future. In prince’s way, he was advised very long ago, to treat life as if in a war field. Everything you have now, or you tend to fight for, has no different than fighting in a war. Your life is a war field, a platform for you to win or lose a battle, if you lost; you stand up and fight again, until you reach your grave!

Prince never set rules for work, but he sets rules for himself. He sets principles for himself. Aggressiveness, self-determination, and many more good characters arise inside of a person, who fights for survival in Warfield. Failure leads you to nothing.

However, Prince pondered through the scenario, and he found out that life is not a war field for human being, but life is a kingdom of your own. Human being should not run their life; instead, they should manage their life, it is like managing a kingdom.

Life is just a platform for you to strike.

Study, work, business, and many others that have objectives to serve should be a war. If you treat your study as if in a war, hitting a good grade meaning, winning a war, succeed in business or career development means conquering another part of the world. Managing a life (kingdom) requires different approach than fighting in a life and principles can help you clearly defined your roles.

When you work (war), you know you can not fail, and it helps you to define the critical success factor (character) in order to get promoted (winning a war). Similarly, study (war), you know the critical success factor is to be hard-working and proper time management in order to hit a good grade (winning a war). Hopefully, Prince ‘chicken soup’ helps ‘the confuse one’ to have some good point to start managing their life…

Prince Rules of Work...

What is the rule of work? What is the principle of work? Prince questioned himself and seeking for an answer. Self-determination, self-initiatives, hard-working & many more are to be listed out for an executive who are looking for better career opportunities. Sometimes, these rules are difficult to establish because it can not be clearly defined for the sake of following. Prince believes, childhood experiences can help to shape a person character, and determine how it how a person will be in future, good or bad, there’s no clear explanation of how it was formed. Paradox also plays the role to confuse human being, can you put yourself in the shoe of Prince to understand what is it all about now?

Karma in Sri Hartamas...

What is Karma? Prince wondered. It is a cycle that tends to believe in shaping human behavior for betterment. Prince visited Karma in Sri Hartamas, a pub disco, a usual hang-out place for many executives. Prince was fascinated by the exclusive interior design that filled with Indian flavor, crowded with regular patron making it in fashion! Certainly, Karma is a nice and pleasant hang-out place if you are looking for some oldies tune sometimes.

Prince attends a meeting in Bangi...

Tiredness called, but prince still had to attend a meeting in Bangi, Headquarter for his company. It is a corporate development committee meeting, and meeting up with his CEO and group founder can’t be any merrier. Apart from serious and official discussion about business expansion, group founder and CEO shared their experience in career development and working attitude that can help to shape our future. Although, Prince found it the sharing filled with arrogant speeches, somehow he felt the trueness in the contents. For a person who is able to make it that far, required persistency and self-determination, this is not easily find in any human being, very often, human being shy from mistake and problem, meanwhile, success usually leads to arrogance, and jeopardizing the whole career development of one person. Prince needs to make sure that he retrospect on his mistake often, if any, and continuous improvement for a betterment.

Prince got his Result...

Prince finally got his result for MBA year one final semester, filling with joy, he was surprise that he received credit for the two subjects, at which, one of it, he didn’t even get to attend the class! Fueling with concern and anxiety, he made the worse expectation, was to get a pass for these two subject, somehow, it was better than expected.

Prince was asked if he would afraid of failing the subjects, he said, “I have never fail in my exam before, the worse case scenario is to get a pass.” He knows his effort matches the outcome, and better than expected would be a gift…

Prince of SMiles...

PRINCE SMILES

J Smile to your problem to find a solution! J
J Smile to your weaknesses to rectify them! J
J Smile to your strengths to enhance them! J
J Smile to your competitors to outperform them! J
J Smile to your stress to release them! J
J Smile to your pressure to lighten them! J

J Smile to criticism to review them! J
J Smile to your unfortunates to be happy! J
J Smile to your friends to keep friends with friends! J
J Smile to your colleagues to make the workplace a better place! J
J Smile to your bosses to impress them! J

J Smile what your mum has given you! J

AND

J Smile when you knock the door! J

AND

J Smile when you step out of the room! J

J

Finally,
Laugh when you smile!

Logas n Liz ...L & L... 

when prince a bit high...look at the face, look at the face... oh my god... 

Geraline...look fantastic...would even better if princess si around.. 

wHEN Every one drunk!!! 

The birthday party is sponsored by Marlboro! Just kidding!.. 

Doreen taking lamborghini ohh... 

Caryn (middle)...the birthday girl.... 

Jothan & Liz... 

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OK,,who is the culprit....oh....Logas..and DOreen.... 

All of them folling around in Expanda... 

Doreen & Logas.... 

Simmy, Alex, Jothan and Prince in Expanda..... 

This is where prince sleeps everynight, what a cosy place.....da da da... 

Prince is too free and got nothing to do, snaps his room for your viewing....this is prince small little castle at which he spends most of his time.... 

Prince Shopping...

Prince went shopping today, and he believed that he overspent for this month. He just bought himself a Hi-fi because he can’t live without music. Meanwhile, he also bought himself a shaver at which he believes it would make his life easier. When he arrived home, the first thing he did was to rearrange his room and clean it up! Now he got a total different kind of feel about his room, at least it looks better than before. Simply, under pressure of his MBA study, and worry for his work, he needs something different, and that is what he did! Prince doesn’t have much life, his room is the only place he hang around the most, and he needs it to be different, and most importantly, comfortable! Out of nothing to do, he took a few snaps of his room, showing his little sit-up equipment, bed and his personal work desk! Check that out! What a simple life he has!

Prince Skeptical....

Prince hang out in Steven’s corner tonight with Cath Stuart, Logas, Simmy and Geraline, they chatted along, and shard a lot of childhood experiences. Discussion was on, and they even share their experience on ghost story. The conversation goes on and talk about religion and superstitious.

For Prince, Prince is always skeptical about religion because he believes that religion has become too commercialize whereby every different religion only focus on recruiting more devotee instead of imparting knowledge.

Prince in EXPANDA...

Prince went to Expanda tonight, spending a few hours in Expanda while waiting for the birthday girl to appear. Apparently, there was some miscommunication about the date of celebration, the group of around 12 people thought that it was tomorrow! Anyhow, Mr. Logas settled the miscommunication, and they came finally, arriving at 12.30am. Prince thought everything was being solved, but ironically, some 4 of her friends were underage! Usually, ages don’t really matter much, somehow, the kids just want to have fun, but the bouncer seems to trouble the group. The excuse was that there was a police raid tonight, and a few clubs have been raided, Passion, Rum Jungle & Thai Club, they were just afraid that the cops may drop by just for the fun of it! Prince sometimes wonders what the fuck is wrong with the cops; they raided the places just because a Dato’s son was beaten up by a bouncer last night! And the fault may just lay on the Dato’s son who acted arrogant and LCLY, who knows! Different Social status always gives some people first priority that deprived of others’ right!

Prince thought about Relationship....

Relationship is supposed to be aesthetic; perfection is what every couple looking for. But, how do you term perfection? Many believe that nothing is perfect, except, religion who always emphasize on perfection.

Do you believe in black magic? Previously, Prince called love a black magic, and rationality can overcome black magic, and Prince strongly stands by his statement. Rationality is a solution to black magic. But now, Prince would like to add on that Rationality no longer the only solution, the solution also makes up of attitude / character, relentless, decisive and Rationality, perhaps, can save you from being hurt, but sincerity is still very important when you step into relationship. The solution to black magic only applies when you have a problem.

After written so much about prince point of view in relationship, Prince have somehow be able to re-arrange the fact, and most important all his statements, to create a much more easier understanding about relationship and love.

A couple fall in love with each other, when they found something in common, or touch by the feeling of love flowing from each parties, or the first impression on sight that spark off the “love at first sight”. A progressive and consistent courting assume on both parties, and finally getting together.

During the courting progress, there’s always a parties that plays the dominant role in a relationship, it happens before and after a relationship, and this dominant position may switch, we may also call this as part of the power struggling in relationship, each party fighting with each other verbally, mentally and etc, just to be at the dominant position.

If you are courting a gorgeous lady, apparently, the lady plays the dominant role, because you need to touch her heart and get her attention, and you are trying every best. You will have to fly up to sky and grab the moon for her If she said she like to have the moon on the sky, you basically did whatever she said, though, may not necessarily all.

Once she has fallen in love with you, and emotionally and physically attached to you, the dominant party may change due to a few circumstances, you may be the dominant players because she starts to respect you and listen to you, and care for your feeling. However, her dominant position may stay, if, even if both already into relationship but still assume the mindset of courting, and that could be pretty terrible and misery for one party being dominated!

It is better to assume a balance domination of power, to avoid further power struggling and it can be fostered with mutual respect, love, care, understanding, patient and passion. What’s worse, human being is always selfish, especially man! Yes, even though Prince is a man, Prince still does not deny man is the most selfish creature on earth!

Once the dominant party falls on the man’s hand, and assume balance domination did not happen here, the boyfriends will start to control the his girlfriends. You may find his temper fickle from time to time; he may treat you well sometimes and treat you like shit sometimes. This is because man always fall into a phobia dilemma, whereby, what they see before the relationship and after getting into the relationship is very much different, they may have notice some thing in you that he doesn’t like, and he may start to regret. The dilemma arises because he has invested his feeling, as to whether love you or not love you. If it worsen, he may have lock another target, and be relentless to you.

Personally, this type of guy would be better to dump it! You wouldn’t want someone who does not even know what he himself is up to, and being so blur and immature in relationship.

But the situation will be very much different is both party share equal power through respect, even if relationship encounter problem in term of character or conflict of common interest, it is still much more easier to settle, they may appear to be very clear cut, and never linger with the problem that will lead to suffering at the end of the day.

Different type of relationship reflects different type of personality and character, and even reflects the maturity of the couple’s thinking. For the first scenario Prince explained, the couple may has too much imagination, and basically indulging into a dream instead of a real relationship. Meanwhile, second scenario, who shares mutual respect, and much more mature in handling relationship.

Different expectation

Define your expectation and find a solution or stop the problem; some people thought about relationship as controlling and heavy commitment, some people thought it suppose to be sweet. What about your relationship then? How would you term a perfect relationship? Is perfect relationship a relationship that has no argument at all? Prince considers that is just another excuse for more argument! Perhaps you may ask yourself if you can see a future with him/ her. That’s the main point even without commitment needed. That’s not about thinking of long term or short term relationship, it is about happiness and hopes, because nothing is perfect, problem arises and falls, up and down in life which may hurt you a lot if you set an expectation on your overall relationship.

Problem!

When you have a problem, and have tried many solutions, up and down, then it would be nice to stop the problem form lingering with your life and torturing you! Think big and work on it! Stop=Break-up!

Self confidence is important!

Sometimes, we need to evaluate our relationship as if the good and bad of your guy / girl, and see if the good one outperform the bad one, if not, what is the solution to it, or else no point getting into a relationship with someone who you may hate a lot more than love.

Set your guide

What is your basic requirement for your boyfriends? Set it and easier for you to make decision in future! Some girl likes guy even though he is a naughty, naughty fellow, but at least he is caring! Apparently, she only needs someone who are caring!