Saturday, June 18, 2005

Prince thought human born perfect...

Prince believes that Human being is born perfect (unless they are born with disability), that is why baby is always endowed with the word ‘innocence’ & ‘flawless’. There is always a space for kindness for every human being because they are also born kind, prince believes.

People argues on the fact that human behavior turns sours, and blaming on others wrong doing, you may hear this very often when parent tends to scold their children for ‘no hope’, stupid and un-teachable. In fact, every human being is forgiven for their doing, and every human being deserves the opportunity for a change in life. Every human being is born with kindness, and it is the process of being an adult that led them to wrong path. They haven’t found the right person to lead them back to the right track. Although, it is arguable that only if human being desire for a change can change for the best, but sometimes, if you can find the way to the inner world, and discover what can provoke human desire for a change, would certainly make the process faster than ever.

Prince succeed many times in changing people from bad to good, but he fails one time, when he met up with his assistance. He is able to read her inner world, and see the picture of her. The only challenging task is to make her realize of herself. Prince fails to change her because she is in a different world (dancing), you can not change a person without bringing her into your own world. The person that needs changes, have to look back to their own personalities, by standing at the other angle, totally out of their world, which is not easy without someone leading them.

Meanwhile, our society is made up good and bad, somehow, the bad is an outcome of learning process turns sour. There is always a chance for human being to be good, but sometimes, they make their choice to become what they want, partly due to the external forces, and character development process. Thus, parent needs to teach children how to make choice, most importantly, how to evaluate good and bad. Human being has no right to tell people what is good and bad but to teach human being what is good and bad. When you tell them what is good and bad, they tend to develop their own believes, and become rigid. Their rationality stuck there. For example, when your child is watching action movie, and there is a fighting scene, for them it is merely a scene of 2 people punching each other with expression, if you tell them this is wrong. In future, if they see a fighting scene, they know it is wrong, and they won’t evaluate whose right and wrong, or who start the fight first, all they know is ‘wrong’. It becomes rigid to them, thus, parent needs to teach them how to evaluate a situation because it can help to develop their reasoning power.



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