Sunday, December 11, 2005

Prince: None-Other-Factors...

Should or should not a couple take into consideration of others’ feeling in their relationship? This discussion is to confine within a circle where we should discuss about.

Couple at the adult age, tends to think too much in their relationship, where sometimes it lingers and creates doubt in their feeling. When a relationship starts fresh and good, with a distinctive feeling for each others, it is actually marking a good start, and should go with the flows to a good ending.

However, when couple thinks too much in the process, the process itself will drill down to the fundamental question on their feeling for each other. They find themselves confuse again as if they should or should not carry on with their current stage. The more they think; the increasing number of factors will become overwhelming and creates unnecessary worry, and anxiety.

Family is one of the factors, where they consider the importance of the acceptance from family members. When they process of thinking lingered on, will lead to another problem whereby, they start to think if their family members can live along with their partner, then it goes on un-finish! The point to make is, unnecessary worry, it may only create problem by problems, and it shows a never-ending story in the process. Acceptance from the respective family may be the last stage of the relationship, except the fact that if the couple is too young to think for themselves.

A relationship supposes to be personal issues, where, the feeling develops from within the two persons, not family, friends or siblings! As such, it supposes to be planned, considered and went with the flows of the feelings between the two. No one is going to tell you to only go with certain type of girls/ boys, and of course, no one is going to stop you from knowing your peers, instead, they should only advise, and to accept or not is totally depend to you, based on our own judgment, and personal value.

Many people at the middle-twenties, were asking what they should do if their parents show objection to their relationship? It is a subjective question but the answer is for you to find out, nothing can stop the feeling from growing but when problem pops up, all you need to consider is only the character and personality of your partner. None other factors should stop you from getting along with your partner. Age, money, parents, siblings or friends are not a factor to hinder you in relationship as long as the person you like has a good personality and that you are happy to be with him/ her. You feel happy to be with him/her, you feel worthiness, and love.

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