He went to coffee bean last night, thought of chilling out for the night. The he noticed a child was crying, and sitting at one of the table. The child claimed that the other child was beating him, as he complained to his mother; the more irritated his mother gets.
After a few minutes, she (mother) pulled him into the washroom, and beat him to make the cry stop.
‘Stop crying’, as she beat.
‘No one beat you, understand? He (the other child) did not beat you!’ as she tries to ‘brainwash’ her own son.
Sometimes it is hard to know why some human just not worth being a human!
First, they tend to go for a short-cut. By right, pat talk can help to solve the problem without resulting to beating but why can’t they do that? Patient is one major problem in parents; parents who beat up their children without good justification are not a good parent.
Second of all, why can’t human control their temper and be rational. God gives you temper to test your capability to control it, not to release it on other human being, moreover, it is a child!
Thirdly, if you do not know about your child, then hand it over to someone who knows better. Apparently, parents nowadays claim to understand their role and obligation but doing it the opposite or the wrong ways. Perhaps it is true for the claim made in one of the research where Asian parent tends to fall behind in term of parenting skills as compare to western country…
Listening to Eric Clapton - Tears in Heaven...
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