Prince: Starbuck Leisure Mall...

He hung out with Fion, Siew Ci and Kim Lian at Star Buck Leisure Mall. It has been quite some time since he saw them last time, and it was quite a good sharing. All that they chat about is office work, friendship and relationship, but seems that he did most of the talking, as usual, Siew Ci is the quiet type, Fion is the blurred type while Kim Lian is the half blurred type. Somehow, it was quite fun talking with them, which allows him to understand his own friends even further.

One of the topics is about love, where, they claim that if you really love your girl friend or boy friend, you should be able to accept everything about him or her. The explanation is two-folds, first of all, it does exist if you believe love is blind, but how long can it last? A lover can’t possibly accept everything about his or her other part, including the bad habit for the rest of their life. You will regret after your marriage because the love will turn into obligation and commitment, and not real love anymore. Secondly, it does not exist if you believe in rationality and openness. You will love his / her good attributes and encourage changes in the bad attributes, but changes which accord to your own bottom-line, where decision shall be made when thing starts to go wrong. You may give him / her opportunity to change, perhaps, one year, or two years, and if the situation remains, the a decision must be made. In this case, Love is not blind because you do not lost sight of yourself in the process.

At around 12pm, he met up with Catheryn Stuart at Pandan Indah, Ice-Cream Café where he get to know a few friends- Andrew, Joey, Vincent, Diana, Siew Ping and Elvy (if not mistaken). They are banker, working for credit card and mortgage department. There, he becomes a listener which allows him to learn a lot about mortgage market. He just got to know that if your home loan is not approved by the city-bank, you can either re-submit it to bank outlet at the rural areas where the approval comes-in a lot faster. This is because the manager of the bank is entitled to make their own decision, and it applies for most local bank (as for oversea bank, all submission must send to headquarter for approval).