Prince: Companionship....Dilemma..

Companionship and love relationship are from totally two different worlds, companionship is a dilemma in relationship; however, it can be the very first relationship stage before going further, or start with companionship, and love relationship can grow later (but this is seldom the case).

Companionship is friendship or merely, a relationship of expecting someone to only be with you, or to get rid of your loneliness. It may occur without commitment, responsibility and the feeling of love. Usually at this trap, couple no longer feel ‘young’ anymore, and the fire of love has not ignite for a long period of time (cooling period). Companionship could be mainly due to aging problem, before or after married.

If it happens before marriage, then it is usually at age before 28, when a couple has been together for more than a year, sarcastically, they deem it as boredom, have conquered their life. Meanwhile, it also happen for couple at age after 28, this is the most significant one because both parties at this age, merely looking for people who can accompany them until the end of their life, instead of feeling, feeling may no longer stay within the person itself.

Companionship also happens after marriage, when a bad incident occurs, you care, but you care for love or cares for companionship, can be a tricky question. You may cry, mourn and grieve over the incident, but the purpose of grieving is different. You grieve because you lost someone you like, not love, you cry because you afraid of loneliness instead of love. Sometime, you hear people, crying over a dead body, “how can you leave me like that for the rest of my life, I want to go with you!” this is a statement that you most hear in practical life.

Companionship and love relationship, a dilemma for a couple! You need to make sure you are on the right track.