Monday, August 15, 2005

Prince: When Love too much...

When a woman loves too much, they tend to be irrational in relationship. The old one always said, in love, a couple is willing to do almost anything for each other. But it is harmful to see if ONLY one party is willing to perform anything for the other.

They tend to channel their belief, and fall into the common dilemma in relationship, of loving too much. When you are not appreciated anymore in your relationship, you first, need to find solution to your problem. Effort from both parties is needed, however, if it doesn’t work, then what you should do?

When a problem can not be solved, it is because one party does not believe in changes, and prefer to lead with their own way, if that is the case, then no problem can be solved in that particular relationship.

Very often, when a problem isn’t solved, they will slowly channel their belief and fall into the above dilemma, whereby, they tend to ‘believe’ that their partner will change, from during they are together, until the day of their marriage, and after, they will still believe that their partner will change. They are then cheating themselves. By that moment, somehow they have already wasted their life to that partner who does not appreciate them at all.

Eventually, they either bear with it or believe it is fated or it will take a huge courage to reach at a decision of separation with their partner, but this is the only choice of not giving yourself to someone who does not appreciate you at all. This is a naïve believe in relationship into something impossible to happen.

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