Prince: Simplicity

The rules of simplicity does not always apply in our daily routine, and in some theoretical perspective, simplicity does not command respect at all. Human being misuse simplicity for an instant outcome but forgone many possible sequelae. Of course, one must believe that no pain no gain, as nothing should arrive easy in the current century. It is still difficult to impart the ‘value of effort’ in the process of living especially in childhood education, as prince has been through.

There are many options in life, some may appear to be lengthy and complicated but some may appear to be simple and easy, however, one must not forgone the indirect consequence of the aftermath. Similarly, nurturing children of yours, should not always expect an easy outcome, which may create an indirect impact to your children in future.

Many Asian parents prefer to use forces or enforcement in the process of nurturing their children, forces consist of beating, scolding, reprimanding, nagging and other physical abuse or mental threatening to arrive to an outcome that, apparently satisfy them for the moment, though, they may claim to show love to their children in the process.

All the above nurturing skills which impart to them since young, or through the experience they were brought up before, may not necessarily meet the corrective requirement. However, it is hard to voice for changes in them.

Many parents claim that they beat their children because they love their children, and that they show them love after ward, it may be too naïve to compare to a situation whereby someone slap you hard enough and apologies to you later. You may have forgiven them but the psychological impact will always remain, and it may be worse enough to create a nightmare.

Sometimes, nurturing children have to take into consideration of the psychological element of the children; parenting is talking about nurturing the inner personality of a child, from a zero based where the personality of a child is shaped.

If you scold your children, and show your love later, it can not cure the psychological impact which you have created at the first place. There are many way to teach a child to change but the process is lengthy of course, and complicated which requires parent to learn and apply. Some parents may have too lazy to learn, and impatience always becomes the major hindrance to them.

If a child commits a mistake, it takes you one second to vent out your anger, and it may not stop them from committing the same mistake again, what a parent should do is not only to teach the children the appropriate measure to prevent mistake, but also to rectify the mistake by their own self.

One must also believe that human being commits mistake, especially children, because they are too vulnerable to the environment. If enforcement can help to solve the problem, then how much enforcement is needed?

Thought for the day: Nurturing a child!

Every human being commits mistake, either repeated or first time, children is even vulnerable to commit mistake. Children should learn how to rectify mistake, in order to prevent committing mistake.

Human being walks though the path before a lane is made, and when a lane is made only the road is created. The reality is created by the society of mix behaviors, and it is our responsibility to rectify the reality so that it is congruent. No one should always obey to reality if it is already deviated to the wrong path.

Nothing arrives without effort, though, the fact that one always prefer the simple and easy way, but to consider the lengthy way may sometimes appears to be more appropriate.

Throw away your experience, only then you can arrive at a new conclusion, or perhaps, a new way of life.

Nothing can stop you from doing what you want to do, thus, nothing can stop you from committing the similar mistake again and again, until you are able to be receptive.

The reality or the fact about stock market, when drafting it into a graph, is like our life. It moves up and down, undoubtedly, human being is trying to stabilize the move; this will not happen if they succumb to the reality.