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Human being should just make up their mind without hesitation, and do not shrink away from what they have decided. This is certainly affecting your credibility, especially on the promise you have made to other.
Prince recalls the event, and think, if Mr. Big Brother tell her frankly that he can’t make it for the drink, then prince will not have promise to pick him up, and if so, then prince will not be going out though.
Prince first option is not going; prince’s reason of going out comes into consideration of Big Brother, and second reason of ‘entertaining’. If the first reason was not fulfill, then prince will just dump the idea and stood on his ground without mercy for sure. However, human being sometimes, being to kind to friends, thus, the first idea was fulfilled because Big Brother has promised, then it won’t be nice if prince left his friend stranded, furthermore, Sim has literally voiced out his inconvenient to pick up Big Brother at that time, so he promised to go for a drink. After prince had promised, prince knew he can not break his promise, no matter how, even Big Brother broke it. Prince has no excuses to turn it down, if he has, he would not have made the promise at the first place. If prince turned it down literally after knowing Big Brother doesn’t need transport anymore, then, even with explanation to Fion and friends, their heart will still be broken, and your credibility will still be affected.
Prince learns, one decision can affect so many people in the process, and it has the causation effect, more importantly, it shows that human being is link with each other in a circle that it has become a reality! That each can influence others in the circle, and affect them as a whole, however, prince wasn’t affected because he knows his stand, no is no, and yes is yes, if he already says yes, then it must keep it Yes until the end.
In fact, prince could have kept the NO until the end without taking into consideration of others feeling, but prince can’t uphold his own stand until it jeopardizes other feeling in the process, it will make you look merciless and stubborn because it is your friend who needs transportation to meet the others friends which he had promised to do so. But what prince can do now is to share with them that, decision must be made and follow sometimes, and must voice out the bottom of your heart and don’t shrink at the middle of the way. Or else, your credibility is shaken!
Tuesday, August 30, 2005
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: ( I look 'quirky'? HAHA. OK, it's either me being "individual or eccentric" or just plain "odd". Drink? Anytime is good really.. But don't ask me go Pandan area.. I'm so bad with directions there. Do you all still party? : )
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