Every human being is born with the instinct to detect lies; it is like the survival skill, one kind of hidden skill on every human being. All they need to do is to utilize it or to create a tension to ignite it.
How often do you find your friend, family, sibling or colleague lie to you? And did you manage to detect the lies afterward? Would that be right to say, human lies at least once a day, asked yourself, do you lie?
It is the fact that when you lie, the first person to be able to detect your lie is your parent, and it lingered down to your best friend. It doesn’t matter how to protect yourself by giving out excuses, by lying to your closer one, it will soon reveal. That is human instinct.
Eyes are the pitfall for most liars, because when you lie, your eyes will tell, and your movement and expression will show the difference. Your closer people around you will be able to reason and notice, even if a tiny changes in what you usually do, and say, and that leads to doubt. Detector starts to work when doubt started grows inside the person.
A few reasons why people lie:-
Safety & self-defense – they lie to protect their safety, usually under dangerous condition.
Egoism & Self-esteem – they lie to protect their own egoism and self-esteem
Wrong-doing – they lie to protect their wrong-doing
Tuesday, December 06, 2005
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