Sunday, January 28, 2007

Prince: A night in the Loft...




























Prince: The TV Show...

TV reality show is moving into a new era, bring forth a new competitive platform which may pollute the young mind in the society!

The millionaire’s show which used to be my favorite shows had somehow ceased producing; I recall how participants competing & risking their prizes for a greater return, some lost, and some appear as winners of the millions.

Nevertheless, the reality show is preying on human greediness for a better media rating, on the other hand, could be a bad model that would mould the society with a more materialistic ideology. No one has ever condemned such a show, and is seemed insensible to the possible consequence.

I have also realized that local Reality show has moved into another stage of creativity that posses certain consequences to the younger generation, good or bad, no one ever knows or think about it.

Reality show uses pecuniary rewards to prey on human greediness is a norm now, and has now evolved. Instead of pecuniary rewards, they are now preying on viewers emotionally & desire of certain entity. ‘Cornetto Love Perhaps’ & ‘What Woman wants’ are both good example of reality show that allusively adopt female personage, and projectile what the man ‘lust’ for, to make a killing for higher viewer rate.

Creativity & innovative are healthy contribution to the TV industry, but arrive with a price to the society ultimately. The shows may have brought value to the industry but society may not benefit from it except a good laugh or a moment of tear-shedding.

Woman should neither become an object of competition, nor emolument of some kinds. Woman should not also become a prize for man to kill each other either, or an object to satisfy the mankind. This is not only about respecting the female species but also to the mankind, imparting the proper moral value.

Prince: The Problem..

It has always been pleasure to hang out with friends, and shares some personal encounters, and consoling, and giving pieces of advises to each others’ problem. Nothing is better than sharing because we all believe ‘sharing is loving’; that has kept us all together for so long.

Our friends gathered in Old Town after few days apart, perhaps thing has been quite rough for him, and hence we all sat down for him. A moment of sharing, a moment of confusion I had, his concerns may have disoriented my thought; one moment trying hard to give piece of good advice, another moment of doubt came in. I soon realize I am out of ideas to help resolve the question mark by him.

I took time referring back to my note, and re-arranging my thought to provide a better sharing. I finally come to a conclusion of what I should say. A relationship is about commitment, love, faith, evolutional, education, give & take, passionate & patience – all you can name, and these are truth.

There will be a struggling period in any relationship, and that particular time require passion & patience; there are also period of doubt in relationship, and that require faith; there are also period of being apart from each other, and that require loyalty & commitment; different progress require different kind of attitude looking at the circumstance. There are also period which synergies hard to see, and then it requires education, and understanding.

It is important to understand the expectation laid on each other by partners to avoid conflict & communication break down. Often, couple prefers to avoid conflict rather than facing it, for example, bored going out with boyfriend due to his indifferent attitude or pettish, she might prefer to avoid it rather than talk-it out face to face, perhaps, she assume you are receptive enough to such openness? Another reason perhaps, face to face may be the last resort for her.

You may need to seek 3rd party help, who may be her best friend to find out what she wants; play with guess before you encounter her, change your attitude if you realize your drawback earlier, or other wise wait for the change may ruin your relationship as time goes by. Many have asked how to change is consider change. That depends on individual thought, and expectation to be. It is always hard to pen down due to its capricious behavior under different circumstance.

Prince: In The Loft...yo..

Opps, we club at The Loft last night!

And they have finally got their revenge on me after 2 year! Ha! Ha!

Still remember how I get Cath, logas & Sim down in their birthday party consecutively 2 years; they have been looking for chances to realize their vengeances, and they have got it last night!!!

I feel so high with a glass of ‘GraveYard’, never in my life feel like having weed before puking like hell! He! Frankly speaking, the first few minutes after the Grave Yard, really feel good man!

Prince: Oh..Boss..Please...

Tooth brush said, ‘I have got a shitty job’

Toilet Roll said, ‘Yeah, right! Look at me!’

I am not here to grumble about my boss but it is really too much. Still remember that evening, I packed my stuff ready to go back at 6.30pm (official office hours till 5.30pm); Understanding that now is the hectic period preparing marketing plan to be presented to Japan HQ, but I have got my work done, and of course, I should be able to leave anytime, after all, I have already worked an hour extra for company; more over, if you have got something for me, please delegate early in the morning so that I can finish it before the day.

Before I walk out of the door, my senior said, ‘Are you going back now?’

‘Yes, I have done my work’, I replied

‘No, you can not go back, it is critical period, why are you look so relax’, she said

‘I have finished my work already, you got anything for me on the marketing plan, or otherwise I will leave now’, I replied with sincerity.

‘No, your part is done, I will do the rest myself, but you can not go back so early; boss must have something for you, he always like last minutes, you better stay back, let me call him now, see if anything he wants to give you’, she said.

Calling boss, ‘Hello, you got anything for Steve, because he is leaving now’, she asked my boss in the phone.

Perhaps, my boss had in fact allowed me to go back, judging from my senior conversation with him because my senior said ‘What about Singapore? He can help you, what about Data Key-In? Let him do it for you’

My colleague over heard and voice his dissatisfaction by saying that ‘He had finished his work then you should let him go back, it is not fair to do so’ He said.

My senior colleague, firmly & anxiously replied ‘no, can not, you must understand our boss always like to do last minute thing, and I don’t want to come back in weekend for this, you all better stay back late to finish up everything’

All of us speechless, I do not mind to stay back late but it must be something good, not solely satisfying some personal jealousy. The way she did it as if intentionally without good mean.

I have offered my help a few times, but she prefers to do it alone, and when under stress, take me as a scapegoat. It is unbearable.

Meanwhile, my boss is another problematic person; he likes to force us back to office during weekend to do his ‘job’. Yes, judging at the situation, he prefers to supervise than performing his own duty. Often, we do not know why he is wondering around in the office in weekend, while we put our head closely to monitor preparing ‘his’ marketing plan. All he did is ask, ‘Steve, is that part done? Steve, is this part done? Steve, is the other part done? I need to have a look! We are running out of time, faster!’ And all he did is walking here and there, or simulating movement of playing golf, or stretch himself a little bit as if working out in gym!!!!

Now, you think you have got a bad boss, look at mine first! You think you have done lot of shitty job in work? Look at me first…

Prince: Different kind of Story!