Prince: Relationship is about opportunity..

Relationship is about giving opportunity to oneself to know the others; and along the way, commitment comes in. Many man & woman on earth do not realize that they are turning opportunity away so often that they are destined to be single for this life.

When you gave a person the opportunity to know you, at the same time giving yourself an opportunity to know that person you may not love, at first, but who knows, may fall in love later.

However, if the opportunity is not given to & are shunning away from those person who you thought has fond of you, you are eventually pushing away the opportunity that you may have long for since long ago.

The nature of human being towards love is a mystic; a proverb is better to describe this, ‘A man has never eaten those meat in the mouth, and always long for those sighted far by their eyes, and yet impossible to reach’.

Laziness may be another reason for this, we as human always long for something easy, and that because we are too lazy to know others. We simply thought that providing an opportunity to something they dislike is a waste of time but in fact, at the bottom of their heart, tells that we are too lazy to know what we do not care. However, thing changes when we meet someone we like, but on the other hand dislike us. Under this circumstance, we will somehow work as hard as possible to win the ‘opportunity’ from others. This is the paradox of human nature in relation to love.

Selfishness is somehow, could be another cause of action, as they care only those they like, and despite those they do not like, and tend to treat it an eyesore. I would believe there are always a better way to deal with this; As for me, I haven’t figure out one that works; My wifey and I are pretty much destined by fate perhaps, because we both felt for each others when we first meet, and one thing leads to another based on both willingness to allows a further action. In my case, it’s the opportunity given by both that spark off everything. It took us only 2 weeks to become a couple, but if one party is not willing to provide the opportunity then it will certainly take longer time.