How much do you know about children? Apart from fostering and nurturing children, have you ever considered the psychology aspect of the children? No, certainly, none of you has ever think about it, you may only consider children as a reflection of your own childhood, thus, you tend to bring up your own children the way you were brought up before, remember this statement. When this happen, you are being dominated by your own shadow, which you are starting to assume your understanding of children, but in fact, you are merely fulfilling your own psychology needs at that time due to your own experience, not your children!
You must always remember from the birth of a baby, he/she is already a person, a perfect human-being, was formed from fetus to a baby, and delivered by the proudest human being on earth-the mother. A baby is born neutral, and their mind is as blank as a piece of blank paper. The fundamental need a baby would ask for (if he can talk at that time), is your care and love, and the only language a baby has, is crying and tearing, similarly, both are also the only weapon a baby has.
Baby, when they are first bring into this world of multiple colors, they are holy, and they do not see you as a person, or perhaps, merely, an object. Your emotion at the moment, can affect your way of nurturing your baby before the baby developed into seeing you as a person.
When time goes on, after months and months, you tend to see baby differently, more likely, a person, and you tend to notice many reflection of your own shadow, many different type of behavior such as isolation from parents, friends and surrounding, mischief and picky, and you must be able to use the right encouragement to nurture them.
Saturday, September 17, 2005
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